A couple of years ago I fell in luv with a man so deeply,during the beginning of our relationship was great we connected so deeply that we just knew how we felt about each other when we look into each others eyes, we connected so well that people who didn't know to much about our relationship said they see wedding bells. On our first date we ended up wearing the same color everything everywere lol. Anyways later on in the relationship I broke up with him because I started 2 not trust him, he stoped callin like he was doing b4& we didn't spend much time together, he always said he was wit his family & @work, but I didn't belive that, even though he may have very well been dong so. That didn't end to good. Just recently we have been talking & we hung out 1 day & I told myself b4 we did so it's whatever were hangin out as friends. But it didn't happen like that, the luv we share instalntly appeared he told me that I hurt him, I appologized. The whole time he kept sayin he loved me.
2007-03-10 16:34:02 · 2 answers · asked by Maxilary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in the same exact situation, just a little different on the connection level on my relationship. My bf in the beginning of the relationship showed me he loved me a lot and would always call me. Now, he doesnt call me at all. I have to call him now. Only when I call, he calls me back because he feels that he needs to call me for the reason that I called him. And when I do talk to him now, the conversations were just bad and a lot of the times he ends the conversations. He says he's busy with work, but I really dont believe him because he has time to do things he wants to do. Anyway, Im starting to think my bf is lying to me and giving me lame excuses to explain why he isnt calling me anymore. We havent broke up yet, but we have been very distant. Im starting to sense he is cheating on me as well... so im going to break up with him too just dont know how to.
Anyway, you did the right thing to break up with him. He probably only realized that he really did lost you when you finally toook the courage to break up with him. If someone really did love you very much, they will call you even if they're super busy. So yeah, you need a guy that treats you the way you deserve.
2007-03-10 16:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get someone else, quit lying to yourselt and let him quit lying to you, get someone else. Once the trust is gone, its gone and it hell to get it back
2007-03-10 16:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ice Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋