Why do guys say we are to complex? What do we need to do to make things better? I am wondering because I want to be the best that I can be and when I get into a relationship I dont want it to be REALLY HARD! I want it to be as easy as we can make it. I want to be the best woman for my man!!
THANK FOR HELPING
2007-03-10 16:30:30 · 8 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What makes you say that???
2007-03-10 16:31:03 · update #1
Women are complex for guys because they dont think like us. Same for women, women find guys complicated too.
I think guys love tomboys because they're the only ones who closely relate to guys because they love the same stuff like, playing sports, video games, and etc. They love laid back women too who are just like them.
Anyway, dont change who you are to make a guy like you. Just be who you are and someone will love you for who you are.
2007-03-10 16:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are complex because they over analyze things to the point where reality gets distorted. Guys don't analyze relationships that much so we generally aren't aware of things that women expect us to be in tune with. Just make the guy feel like the relationship is all about him and that you're putting in more effort than him and you'll be fine.
2007-03-10 16:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... good questions! i'm not sure what makes us so complex to guys, but i do have some advice on how to be the best woman for your man. first, understand that no relationship is easy; it requires work if you're going to maintain it. second, to be the best you can be, you should keep your eyes and your ears open. pay attention to everything your man says (and doesn't say). and don't play guessing games with him. (you know, that thing we women get really good at - the "guess-what-i'm-thinking-about-even-though-i'm-not-gonna-tell-you" thing?) men hate that! keep all communication open and honest, and you should be fine. best wishes, girl :)
2007-03-10 16:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What guys? You are listening to stereotypes. Don't worry about this stuff now. When you get a guy you care for then worry about what HE thinks and the stuff HE brings to the table.
You will see all kinds of weird Qs here on this forum that aren't a good representation of how men really think out in the real world. And so much of it depends upon what kind of environment you are in and the age and education and such of the men you are socializing with.
Let me suggest a really good book to read that I think might help. "You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen PhD. It deals with communication between men and women and how it's so different between us and why and how we can come together on things.
It's kind of heady in places and involves research but it cleared up quite a bit of crap for me.
And there really are some good books out there.
But I think one better thing is to make friends of men. They don't seem near so foreign when you can genuinely relate to them as people and not just romantic partners. And I think when you seek to understand them, they will better understand you.
Welcome to the world of men and women, sweetheart. I hope it's as lovely for you as it has been for me.
2007-03-10 16:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
::lol:: Hmm as a woman and an avid person of Linux (and UNIX), to boot as Ruby and Perl, I agree that girls are plenty extra durable to comprehend. Alhamdulillah i'm plenty extra complicated than any OS, in spite of the language you utilize to application. ^_^ speaking with a computer is not any extra effective than a string of instructions, with set parameters. because of the fact the asserting is going, "a working laptop or pc will hardly do what you pick it to do, yet will continuously do what you tell it to do." Now try making use of this to women. Yeah, did no longer think of so. in case you are trying a application and it does no longer do what you predicted, you come back to the command line and consider out lower back. in case you're saying something to a woman and she or he misunderstands, there is not any going lower back to the command line, no cleansing up the code. whether a working laptop or pc won't assume your desires. try writing a application which will make your regular meals for dinner, somewhat of in simple terms putting mutually something rather suitable for eating (if it does even that, on account that probably this equipment did no longer specify the "pass to kitchen" command ::lol::). a working laptop or pc won't be attentive to which you had a coarse day at artwork and stay silent, in basic terms offering a grin and what comforts you could relax. In essence, no longer something is faulty with you. Alhamdulillah Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala created us with emotions, and minds able to loose theory, in assessment to computers.
2016-11-24 19:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the most complex and misunderstood thing w/ women is you dont take anything at face value. your always trying to figure out what we really mean or just over anlyze everything. when we say we want to be left alone thats what we mean, just leave us alone.
2007-03-10 16:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by declaar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men like it simple..it takes concentration and diligencebut don`t confuse easy with complacency....
2007-03-10 16:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by waterboy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are and you never will understand them, but we love them anyway.
2007-03-10 16:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by sidekick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋