Guys what is most important to you in a girl?

Question

Do you care if she's pretty? Do you care more about personality? How smart she is? How she dresses? A big butt? If she is over weight? Dose a big chest really matter? Her manners? Be honest, What attracts you the most? and Why? I promise not to send an angry e-mail if I don't like the answer. Really I promise!

Do you care if she's pretty? Do you care more about personality? How smart she is? How she dresses? A big butt? If she is over weight? Dose a big chest really matter? Her manners? Long hair? Be honest, What attracts you the most? and Why? I promise not to send an angry e-mail if I don't like the answer. Really I promise!

Long hair? values? Honest? integritiy?

Yes but if you had a real conection would you put aside looks for character?

Answer 1

the most inportment this Is that she has a good heart and Brain. meaning she is not dummy. like kelly Bundy From Marred with Children.

Answer 2

Obviously, most of the items you mentioned are just as important to guys finding a girl attractive as they are to girls finding a guy attractive! I mean, c'mon: Appearance? Dress? Manners?

As far as which is MOST important--to me? Well, they are all very important but if I HAD to choose I'd say that physical fitness ranks very highly. I prefer women who are athletic or at least physically active, fit and trim.

Why: well, for one thing, I find physcially fit women to be more physcially/sexually attractive. Additionally, they are more likely to have an active, energetic lifestyle that I would find compatible and are more likely to be health-concious like me. It's all about compatibility.

I may get some thumbs down for it, but hey, just as most women will freely admit to prefering tall, handsome men. I prefer women who are physcially fit and trim...

EDIT:

Since you've added character traits to the question...I have to change my answer. Character is most important above all. I didn't mention it the first time because you only asked about the obvious stuff you see before getting to know a person.

EDIT:

In answer to your last edit--I would put aside looks in favor of character if there were a really good connection. I would not sacrifice physical fitness, however.

Answer 3

A girl's looks as long as she is decent. I care mostly about her personality. As long as she cares about me I dont care how smart she is. How she dresses as long as she is comfortable. But tight jeans and tight jean shorts turn me on. Well as long as she aint that big. Her manners dont matter too much just as long as she dont fart at the dinner table or church anywhere else i dont care. What attracts me the most is her personality and how she treats me good. If a girl does not treat me good i wont be with her at all. Also I want a girl who is honest and trustworthy. Without trust you cannot have a relationship.

Answer 4

Very Difficut Question. I dont think that you will get any Honest reply. Man wants all the matters / points those you described. Smart, Pretty, Big Butt, Large than Medium Boobs, Good Manner etc and Sexy . All thse combined if she is Honest.

Answer 5

It varies a lot from guy to guy but I have learned to appreciate all kinds of women when it come to looks, each one is special in their own way. as far as a long term relationships is concerned there are really four things that matter to me.
1) Integrity
2) loyalty
3) flexibility (not the physical kind)
4) Giving nature

Unfortunately most attractive women only have 2 or sometimes three of these qualities but not all four. That is when I get disappointed and say goodbye it was nice nailing you.

Answer 6

I want her to be witty enough for me. I want us to be total equals in the sense that I won't dominate her and she won't dominate me. One of the most important things she should have is the ability to make me laugh. I want her to be clean like any person should (lol) a big butt and chest doesn't really matter, those are just the pluses to me! If she could make me love me and everything else then I have most certainly fallen for her. By the way, she's my best friend and I'll tell the world how great she is if I have to. ;)

Answer 7

I like this question! I want a soft spoken, caring, loving woman with a forgiving spirit ... a soft place to fall. I like curvy thick women who know how to cook and don't mind going to the park with my german shepard. I love a girl who where's dress's, skirts, perfume, but no make up. I want my girl to look like a girl and I don't like pants on girls I think it's too masculine. I want to be able to go to Mass together and then go out for breakfast every Sunday. Sweet a sweet girl is what I am looking for and most girls nowadays are tough, bit-hy, arrogant and loud ... they may look like a lady but there personality speaks louder and that's a big turn off! I hope this helps and thaks for asking.

Answer 8

of course we care abt looks....do you think we guys wanna spend time with an unappealing person, but she doesnt have to be super pretty or something, just decent normal looking will do......however personality also matters, after all no matter how good looking a girl is, if she has fuc-ked up personality and manners no one will like her too.......as for things like big chest, i dont think it really matters but it depends on personal preference

but the ultimate thing that attracts guys is how the girl treats him (i think)

Answer 9

The answer to your question is: The best guys out there in the world care about, loyaly, respect and honesty. Other than that be yourself and if its meant to be it will be. A real man, one that will treat you right will value these character traits above all other negative or positive superficial attributes you possess.

Answer 10

Honestly I don't care what she looks like, where she comes from, how intelligent she is, what kind of job she has, etc. The only thing that really matters is if she has morals and integrity, both very rare commodities nowadays.