Am I over exagerating?

Question

My best friend for years got a new boyfriend. We used to talk every day but sometimes i feel like she chooses him over me. They havent been dating for very long but things have changed since they started going out. I dont think she knows i feel this way and im not sure how to tell her. Should i just wait until her and this guy break up or should i find some way to tell her what im feeling?

Answer 1

It's normal for someone to wrap themselves up in a new relationship. I'd keep my mouth shut, she might think your jealous.

Answer 2

Well what do you think she should do? Split herself down the middle so she can give both you & her new b/f her undivided attention?

Of course she is going to be spending more time with him than she does with you. A true friend would be happy for her.

In your question you sound jealous of her b/f.
Sure talk to her, but just say that you miss the times you spent together with her before she met her b/f, & that you would like to go do something with her once in a while like you used to do.
Otherwise it might be a while before she breaks up with him.

Answer 3

no, friends should always come before boys. she shouldn't be ditching you for her new hottie. wait a few weeks and let the "new" boyfriend/girlfriend phase play out and if she is still blowing you off than approach her about it.

Answer 4

if you and her are best friends then you need to be honest with
her and tell her that you miss the friend ship iwth her, it normal
to feel diffent when you have a boyfriend/girfriend. but she
need to know this.

Answer 5

just wait till they break up, meanwhile take her to like an amusement park or something. that way, when they break up you'll still be friends with her.