if you are friends with a girl but you like her but you dont know if she likes you so you go and try to kiss her would she get mad? how would you girls react if this happen? am not sexy sooo lol!
2007-03-10 16:14:58 · 18 answers · asked by soccerdude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude its not really about kissing her if you really like her you wouldnt do that cause she mihgt think ur not respecting her.. just hug her and she might fall for you.. but dont kiss her even if she has been ur friend.. its not okay..go slow
2007-03-10 16:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by mufasawhat7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will only get mad if you do it out of nowhere. I know the fastest way to get her to know what you want in a non-threatening, non-wussy way.
You do this KISS TEST with every girl to see if she wants it. Best part is, if you fail, you can try later. Do this.
So you've been talking to her for a little while. The energy is good and she's smiling. REACH over slowly while looking in her eyes and stroke her hair slowly and gently.
Touch the ends of her hair and lean back a bit. Keep talking while doing this and tell her only ONCE that she has soft hair. Keep talking for about a minute.
If she doesn't look too shy or move back or doesn't look uncomfortable, then THIS is the moment. Go slowly. She is into it. She KNOWS what you want and is feeling a little excited.
Go for the kiss SLOWLY. When you touch, keep it soooooo very light and tickly. Pull back before she does. Then talk as if nothing happened. After a minute or so, interrupt her sentence with another kiss, but now not as soft. Pull back before she does. Repeat everything with the kiss and soft -> harder and pulling back. It is awesome and it makes her want you more.
In case she DOES get nervous when you touch her hair, just stop slowly and lean back and chill. Try again after she laughs at another joke.
She won't get mad because all the way up until the kiss part, you're just being friendly. If you follow every little detail I wrote, you won't be creepy, and worst case scenario: She gets nervous at your manliness. :)
Fatoodles.
Franklin
2007-03-11 00:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, If she has dropped hints and been flirty with you, then she is probably counting on you making a move. It depends on how she acts around you. If she is more stand offish around you then she probably just considers you as a friend. If it was me I would just give her a hug and kiss on the cheek and see how she reacts, if she reacts good then go for a kiss, if not then back off and all will be well!! Hope I was of some help!
2007-03-11 00:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kitsters Mufasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before heading straight for the kiss, try to test her out and see how she feels about you... If she doesn't give you a clue, then go for it, but beware that it could be the end of the friendship.
Either you will embark on the start of what could be a beautiful relationship, or things could forever change between the two of you, if her feelings don't match yours...
Go for it, though, because you can't win if you don't try.
2007-03-11 00:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did it in a tasteful way (Don't make out, feel up her shirt, etc.) and just do a quick peck to let her know how you feel and it's at the right time, she'll probably either kiss back if she likes you or just tell you that she doesn't feel that way about you.
Do it respectfully and you'll most likely be able to save your friendship if things don't work out. Most girls won't get /upset/, persay, because it'd be pretty flattering.
2007-03-11 00:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by abcdefgh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To try this I would go in an order:
Be alone.
Tell a joke or do something to make her laugh.
Look into her eyes and approach.
Kiss her.
If she stops you at any of these steps, she doesn't like you. Although, I wouldn't even do any of the crap I just mentioned and I would just tell her that I like her
2007-03-11 00:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by sergiothefish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd probably try and find out if she likes you before going in for the kiss. see if she's keen to do some couply things with you. if one of my guy friends came in for a kiss and i didn't like him like that i'd probably just push him away and say "what are you doing?" i wouldn't get mad. i suppose it beats beating around the bush.
2007-03-11 00:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Melly83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you are in a relationship with her, a lot of girls probably would get mad if you try to kiss them with no warning.
2007-03-11 00:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to kiss her is NOT the way to try and find out if she shares your feelings.
2007-03-11 00:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, dude. Hold up a minute here......
Your only friends with her....and ya wanna kiss her.....
Sorry Buddy this ain't hollywood. Gotta take her on a few dates first. :-D
2007-03-11 00:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋