I like this girl in some of my classes. We know each other but we're not friends. i really lik her and i dont know the best way to appoach this. there's a dance for the school comin up and every1's talkin about it. i dont want to go 2 fast but i dont want to go to slow either and lose her to another guy.
2007-03-10 15:34:35 · 11 answers · asked by pyro_maniac_darkfire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ask her to the dance! u dont have to be friends with her before u both decide to date but its better to ask then to not tell her u like her at all. if u never told her u will regret it after a while, so just ask her to the dance. just make sure u let her hang out with her own friends at the dance too.
2007-03-10 15:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, personally I would do a little research on her. don't stalk her! just find out some things about her, (especially if you don't know if she is going with someone to the dance yet) maybe what music she listens to or find out who her friends are. find a commonality between the two of you and strike up a conversation. if she doesn't know who you are, then she will be more apt to say no. if research fails, then make up excuses to talk to her. ask her about homework, for instance. just don't do the whole asking her out through a friend or calling her on the phone business, because then she might want to judge you. and don't wait till the last minute, either, because then you're bound to be **** outta luck.
the best thing to remember is to be confident and stay calm, which she will notice. keep eye contact, smile at her, etc. girls love attention, so give her some!
2007-03-10 23:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by jmwiz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here's the thing at the dance stair at her and when she looks at you turn your attention to some one else and then when its time for the slow dance make sure your the first one to ask her.If you don't want to wait that long you should write it in a note or e-mail her. Good luck - hey how come i need help with girls some times and I'm here helping you out HM that odd
2007-03-10 23:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have a few ideas.....try these pickup lines! =)
I'm sure glad I brought my library card, 'cause I'm checking you out!
Do you have a band-aid? 'Cause I scraped my knee when I fell for you...
Do you have a quarter? My mom told me to call her when I fell in love.
Do you like strawberries or blueberries better? I just want to know what to put in your pancakes tomorrow morning...
Here I am! Now what were your other two wishes?
I lost my phone number, can I borrow yours?
k but seriously dude. go for it. the worst that will happen is she will say no. and then you will get over it eventually, and u can move on. and if it's meant to be, then it will happen. We hope you guys have fun at the dance!!
goodluck. remember, you only live once.
<3buck
2007-03-10 23:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by S W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey how's your day going? Got a date to the dance yet?" If she says no you ask her if she says yes you don't. If she's not sure cause she doesn't know you, ask if she wants to go out for a coffee before the dance then she can decide if she likes you or not.
2007-03-10 23:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Melly83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Start a conversation & get to know eachother better 2)At the end of the conversation ask her if she would like to go with you
2007-03-10 23:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kaye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask "do you to go to the dance? Would you like to go with me?" that's what i'd want the guy to do
2007-03-10 23:39:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just say, "I would be honored if you would go to the dance with me."
2007-03-10 23:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her in a letter make it really neat and type it and ask her and say that you where to nevous to ask her yourself that makes girls feel inportant believe me i am a girl
2007-03-10 23:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by meredith h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her directly, it'll sweet her off her feet.
2007-03-10 23:37:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋