hey i been on the computer for a long time and my brother just got bac from my uncles and asked to use the computer i said in an hour and 15 minutes and he said sooner and i said no so he hit me hard with a hackey sac and i screamed and my mom woke up and made him go to his room and yelled hard at him know i feel BAD should i feel bad?
2007-03-10 15:32:05 · 14 answers · asked by baby cake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my brother is 14 and im 13 i no i did act imature for my age but it hurt REAL bad also i feel bad more making my mom come downstaris
2007-03-10 15:38:07 · update #1
You need to learn to live graciously with others.
He needs to learn that violence is not an alternative to dispute.
Yes, you should feel bad. Because of your inability to handle the situation, he has one more reason to dislike you. Understand, what he did was wrong. Even he can see that now.
But, you purposely goaded him to the action he took. You don't like him, fine. But, he isn't moving out and you aren't moving out. Why create the tension? It removes a potential person willing to stand at your side when something bad happens to you.
Apologize in the morning and give him some extra time from your slot. At first he'll wonder why you did that. Tell him, you only have one brother and one chance to treat him fair.
2007-03-10 15:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are yall are wrong. If you have been on the pc for a long time, why couldnt u let your brother get on? You were greedy. But your brother should not have hit you with a hackey sac either. It is normal to feel guilty. I think you should really get off the pc NOW.
PS. Me and my brother used to fight for the pc too, but i know it was truly not worth it. He is my brother with or without computer. Now we are older and i got my own pc.
2007-03-10 23:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shouldn't feel bad u did not mean to get him into trouble he did that himself when he hit you with the hackey sac, and u probably did not mean to scream just did from the shock not cos it hurt.
2007-03-10 23:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Shaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends what you were doing on the computer... and alos depends of your brother's maturity...
So I would say that you shouldn't feel too bad because your brother did harm you...
Just how old is your brother, by the way?
2007-03-10 23:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by ShadowX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't feel bad, because sooner or later your brother will get you back.
2007-03-10 23:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because u were being nice and telling him he could use it later, but he was being a stubborn jerk and forcing u to let him use it. i think he deserves to get the bitter end of the deal for his behavior. u shudnt feel bad at all for him getting in trouble.
2007-03-10 23:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by soccergod7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on what you were doing. he should NOT have hit or thrown ANYTHING at you!!!!!! but you didn't have to scream. sounds like you need to go up and appologize RIGHT NOW!!!! ask him if you can hang out in his room w/ him or something. ask about his day and stuff like that!
2007-03-10 23:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by ThinkPink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your brother is a jerk. Nobody has the right to hit anyone else!
2007-03-10 23:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that was annoyingly weird so obviously you have been on the computer WAY to long, so that was pretty biotchy why dont you get off it and go get him and tell him your sorrrryyyy??
2007-03-10 23:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he ask for it
2007-03-10 23:35:15 · answer #10 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋