I am very open and honest. I care more about their feelings than mine. Is this wrong? I can't stop complementing or flerting with them. I can be very blunt at times. But I refuse to sugar coat or lie to them. And yet I seem to drive them away. Any suggestions? I am also very inquisitive so I ask alot of questions. I just like to learn as much as I possably can about them. Am I being too (nosey) Pushy? I'm also an old fashiond romantic. Brining candy,flowers etc....
2007-03-10 15:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls want to be chased, but not all the time. Some mystery is really good. Back off, don't reveal or ask too much, they need to learn about you to, at their own pace.
The key is to go slow, men can be fast and overwheling, more so than we realize at times, and women love that slow build up, mental stimulation and mystery.
Just check out the questions girls ask on here, they want to know why guys do, what they do, just like us guys, and why we do it. Mystery. Good to be a romantic, but don't over do it. If a woman feels she can lose what she has in you, she will hold on tighter.
2007-03-10 15:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like nice guys, just haven't met any. Don't beat yourself up. The right ones will come around. As for me, I don't see any hope cause I am much older now and men seem to want younger and so I don't get approached. Looks here have nothing to do with it either. Even in my younger days when I did have looks, I was not approached. Go figure. We live in a strange world where meeting someone just is not that simple.
2007-03-10 23:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, "women" does not represent the female population of the world. Different women are attracted to different things. When you meet and become interested in a new or regular girl, don't hone in on the idea that it may turn into a relationship and start pulling out your tricks of the trade. Let her make whichever moves she wants, and let any moves you make be done on their own and not be pre-scripted. Not that you're standing in front of a mirror practicing lines, but don't start every encounter with a girl with a prenotion to use some flirtatious maneuver you think may work on her. Be spontaneous and try to build a stronger friendship with her before working towards moving further with the relationship. Treat women as friendly aquaintances who you have a good time chatting with before thinking of them as potential girlfriends.
2007-03-10 23:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by xraylemur 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My husband is just like u, don't change yourself for others, the right girl will come along at the right time, As for everyone here that they prefer bad boys a lot of times u don't know they are bad, because they start out nice to get u then show the true colours when they have hooked u.
2007-03-10 23:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shaz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We love nice guys, but you may be pushing a little too hard.
If you've just met a girl... like, when you first meet... I suggest you don't ask too many personal questions, such as where they live...
Um, be careful. That's all I can say. Some girls will like the fact that you're so blunt and inquisitive, but some might find you creepy and stalker-ish.
2007-03-10 23:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Cliff 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, did you go around the entire world and check out every single women in the world to know that all women don't like nice guys? Not true. There are women who go after bad guys and their are guys that go after bad women. It's mutual. You will find a girl out there who likes nice guys, there are tons of us. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places? Get yourself involved in a new activity or volunteer for a charity that means a lot to you. First off, you'll take your mind off of looking for women and second, you'll probably meet a girl you have stuff in common that way. Trust me, you'll find girl's who like nice guys volunteering at charities.
2007-03-10 23:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you're just looking in the wrong places. There are lots of women out there who like nice guys, i do. When you say that you can't stop complimenting them what do you mean? If you compliment someone too much they may find you very annoying.
2007-03-10 23:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound sweet but being super honest about everything can make a woman feel overwhelmed and have low self esteem. Be honest but be nice about to show the person you care. Be yourself!
2007-03-10 23:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know why.....when I was younger I always ended up dumping the nice guys and going for the bad boys. Women for some reason want to date bad boys, but most end up wanting to marry nice guys once they are ready to settle down.
Don't change. We women are fickle....but almost all of us long for a guy that does the things you say you do.
2007-03-10 23:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by Stormie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
mmm weird... u sound like a great guy!! u shouldnt change... in fact, most woman should want to be with u!!! u may had been with the few that dont like nice guys... but im sure u will find the right girl for u.. so keep being romantic! we love that...
good luck! =o)
2007-03-10 23:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by ro 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋