My boyfriend has received texts & e-mails from a "good friend" of his that said things like "I love you" & "you're my special someone". I asked him if he told her to stop & he said he already dealt with it, but he still continued to get messages from her. I then found out he sent e-mails and texts to her saying things like "I think about you everyday" & "I luv/love you" blah blah blah. He said he didn't mean those phrases in "that way" and he just says those to her cuz she has told him she feels lonely/forgotten a lot (she used to live here and had a lot of friends here) & he just wanted to make her feel better.
Needless to say, the messages annoyed me. A friend told me even though they're just texts it's cheating. Now the girl is coming down for spring break to visit all of her friends, including my boyfriend. I don't want to be a b*tch & tell him he can't see her....but I am still hurt and wondering about the texts...
Should I just let this all go? What are your thoughts?
2007-03-10 15:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should ask if you can meet her and have a chance to know her. if she is a friend who is a big part of your boy's life, then it would be nice for you to know one another anyway. and if she is trying to hit on your boy, she is less likely to do so if she knows you, as she will be aware of who the person she is hurting is.
it could be completely innocent. i am married but i still have a few friends who i would say things like that too (some girls, some gay, but one or two old friends as well) and it doesn't mean anything sexual. it just means i love them as friends.
2007-03-10 15:47:47 · answer #1 · answered by girl3blonde 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should not just let it go, look honey those don't just sound like friendly messages to me. If she was lonely he could just sent a normal email just like normal friends having a friendly conversation. Those phrases sound a little TOO friendly to me. But I think it all comes down to how much you trust him, if he is very trust worthy and has never given you any reason to doubt his loyalty let him see her, but if he's not exactly Mr.Honesty you may want to go with him or just tell him you don't want him to see her, but at the end of the day it's your decision
Good luck!!!
2007-03-10 23:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by aiming high 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you so have reason to be pissed off. That is not on. Confront him again and if he doesnt like what you have to say then see ya later move on girlfriend
2007-03-10 23:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he.s a player watch out for this type it is called unfaitful. . as well adultry as well. my opion?
2007-03-10 23:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋