also teach school. Every day consists of running my girls around after school to their activities. Most weekends I have my girls because their dad has a very demanding job. I just feel like I run and run and give and give all the time. Sometimes I get so tired and I often wonder if things will ever let up and life will get a little easier..does anyone else feel that way?
2007-03-10 15:22:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a year old girl and my hubby is deployed. I know exactly what your going through. You run around all day waiting for that 'me time' and by time you have time to yourself you're so tired you just wanna go to bed. :)
2007-03-10 15:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Amy, it sounds paradoxical, but having been there and done that, I speak from long experience; what you need is a hobby which creates a small space for yourself in which to recharge your batteries. Seeing you looking after your emotional health will also teach your children a valuable lesson in how to take care of themselves both now and in adult life. Consider taking up Tai Chi - which the whole family can do. Also sounds like your timetable needs rationalising - is everything you do absolutely necessary or could you get the girls to choose which activities are absolutely essential and which could be reduced or omitted. Hope this helps.
Remember that if you have recharged your batteries then you will have not only something to give, but what you give out will be of better quality.
Thinking of you - and yes, it does get easier.
2007-03-10 15:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. Most single moms I know speak similarly about their lives. Do what you can to get some "me time" by asking for help with transportation and such for your girls. It will be more refreshing than you can imagine.
I am a teacher too, so I understand that element. My wife and I are together, but her job is demanding and I get a large share of the parental duties.
I don't suppose this is much help, but that is an answer to the Q.
2007-03-10 15:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bob T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, some days you're the windshield and some days you're the bug. Hang in there it gets better especially if you join a mom's support group. Call your local mental health for an address.
2007-03-14 16:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lynne W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have seen one of my aunt (widow) doing struggle of that kind when i was a kid. today her hard work has paid. both her kids are highly educated, well settled and successful. they know importance of their moms sacrifice. hope ur girls grows up soon and u will have nicer days in life.
if today is not so good, tomorrow will be better for sure. have faith in God.
2007-03-10 15:28:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang in there things do get easier. You do need to find some time for yourself, it is hard to do but you must try. It will help you.
2007-03-10 15:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amy, you're a special kind of person, your kids will never forget you. Please watch this video, I hope it helps. Make sure your speakers are on. It's an inspirational song too. Hang in there, it does get better.
http://www.metacafe.com/w/460162/
2007-03-11 13:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes my whole week was filled with stress and exhausting
2007-03-10 15:31:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋