K well i have this freind and i became freinds with her a yearr ago and then she was alriht and everything but i started to notice she really opened up to me and she had some really bad things happeneing in her life but not REALLY bad just not good so i try to help her then i kinda left her for a while cause she wouldnt let me be with other people or she wouldnt be my frind so aANYWAYS i left her and she cracked and she like went emo and claims what im doing happened in her "dreams" so she says she has these dreams that show her the future right.... is this mental and i dont really want to be her freind she scares me and relies on me to oooo much please tell me what the hell is going on can people actually have dreams of the future? did i do the right thing?
2007-03-10 15:17:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You did the right thing. People do sometimes have dreams that seem to correspond to things that happen later, but that's rare. This person is leaning on you too much. You need to step away, and your 'friend' needs serious help. Normally, friends help eachother in an equal, balanced way - you help your friend, and your friend helps you. It works out well, and feels good. Feeling scared by someone is a sign that something is seriously wrong. Back off from anyone who scares you. If there's anyone you can trust to talk to, do so. If you can go to a therapist, that would be wonderful. Healthy relating feels relaxed and satisfying. You did the right thing.
2007-03-10 15:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, people can have dreams of the future. It happens all the time... but that's neither here nor there.
Your friend does seem to have some emotional problems, and if you are not prepared to deal with them, then perhaps it would be better for you both that you not hang out.
Always treat her kindly, please. Losing friends is hard on everyone. Just make sure she knows you need your space and that she's pushing too hard.
If you are scared to be around her, or are worried about her mental health - talk to a teacher or school counselor about her. They may have a way to help, if not just help keep an eye out for signs of trouble they are more equipped to help with.
Take care of you.
Be kind.
Peace hon. --De
2007-03-10 23:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by Depoetic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it sounds like she could really use some professional help. It could be a couple of different disorders. And I doubt if she is really having dreams of the future. I believe that she believes that she is having dreams of the future though....
2007-03-10 23:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can dream about the future but mot predict it..Your friend sounds like she is lonely and probably has big family problems..Tell a trusted adult or your schoo; counselor.They should be able to help her. Another thing, Be supportave of her, don't abandon her.....someone has probably done this to her already......
2007-03-10 23:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by cesare214 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the exact right thing....no one can see the future...she is using you. Break it off...She is a leech and will suck the life out of you. Yes, she is mental, at least a little.
2007-03-10 23:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally try to stay away from her. Don't go near her and avoid her at all costs. Maybe she just wants attention and feels alone or depressed but you shouldn't get involved. Don't be rude to her but just don't get too close.
2007-03-10 23:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by Muffins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont feel comfortable being her friend, dont be. talk to a counselor at school, maybe they can help her. you are too young to worry about helping her fix her problems
2007-03-10 23:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by l81ucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it. if she read a book called blue is for nightmates, then she's obviously faking it. because thats what the girl in the book does.
2007-03-10 23:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Julia R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just looking for attention. You should ignore her.
2007-03-10 23:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u both are mental and you should seek profesional counceling
2007-03-10 23:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋