They say that women that sleep with a guy right away will not be respected. BUT what if the girl WANTS to sleep with him (she has needs too). Isnt' that like playing a game and lying about what you want to try to coy him into repsecting you. If he is the right one for you.. shouldn't you just be able to put game playing aside and just be yourself and not lie?
2007-03-10 14:45:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, and congratulations on thinking for yourself.
2007-03-10 14:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You leave the man with no need to be excited about you when you sleep with him the first date. How can you expect him to be serious and respect you after that? I'm not saying it can't happen but your chances become very slim. You can not possibly know if a man is the right one for you after one date, especially the first date.
2007-03-10 14:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're over 18, you're free to do whatever or whomever you please, and a man may or may not respect you afterwards. Assuming a man is "the right one" after 1 date (which amounts to a few hours) sounds like you're fooling yourself to justify your actions. The only game you're playing is the one with your future and your health. Isn't that (and STD's) something you shouldn't gamble with? I don't call it being "coy" I call it being safe and smart.
2007-03-10 14:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait it out. You don't have to do it with this guy right away anyway. If you REALLY have to do it, then take care of it yourself or find someone willing to comply without strings. That way you're not hunching his leg at dinner and you can wait until the time is right with him.
2007-03-10 14:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can wait till marriage. There is of cos always bad words spreading around for premarital sex. Premarital sex is a sin before God. It often results in abortion, diseases, heartbreaks, and regrets. You might want NOW but what if LATER things do not work out. Make a difference. Keep it pure and safe, cos you dont know what is gonna happen.
2007-03-10 14:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, God's word is a great source of wisdom on this topic. It's best to save sex for marriage. There is too much at risk when you get involved in casual sex. You are putting your health, life and emotions all on the line for something that does not involve real commitment yet -- that's never a good idea.
2007-03-10 14:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes i agree with you my man respects me and we had sex like the 3rd time we met and we been togethor 2 years now...and anyway why is it women wont be respected?what about the men? i meen it takes 2 to tango right?
2007-03-10 14:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by Trezdons Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither men nor women should sleep together on a first date. What do you know about this person? He could be a total pervert, sadist, etc. If your needs are that great, get a sex toy (and not a live one).
2007-03-10 14:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by kny390 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well, its that if sex is all you want on the first date, then usually we'll think you will want that all the time. Guys may respect you, but its not likely. Besides, dont you WANT a guys respect?
2007-03-10 14:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well those most ppl are right about sleeping together on the first date. they wont be respected at all.
2007-03-10 14:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not logical. Some guys think that way.
Wanting to sleep w him is normal. You wont die to wait a fw dates first.
2007-03-10 14:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋