My boyfriend likes to hung out with his friends alot and I was ok with it. But now it became a problem for me!
I work shifts and most of the weekends I have to work. When i have weekends off, i just want to be with him but he wanna be with his friends and ask me to join them. i know it makes him happy if I be there but I get bord. so most of the times I just go home.
I told him about it but I am not sure if he understood me..
plus we are getting too used to being together nowadays so we don't have much to do when we get together...
what should I do??
or what should we do?
2007-03-10 14:44:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit down with him and tell him the truth, try to work out a schedule that benefits both of you. Tell him that there is a big chance that if you guys don't work something out soon that you wont be together for much longer. But honestly you should try to spend time with him and his friends. Just get into the conversation and then you wont be so board. Or better yet bring some of yours along. And if it still doesn't work just remember...........
WE ALL HAVE TO DO THINGS THAT WE DON'T LIKE FOR THE PEOPLE WE LOVE!
2007-03-10 14:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise. One day of hanging with the boys, its waaaaaay fun, if you understand them, and one night where you go out to eat, then a movie.
I have tons of guy friends, their some of the more fun ones to be around. The get sports, are funny, and aren't always gossiping. (this is rare to find in girls, only my best friend, who's a girl has these traits) So look at the good of the situation, and hanging with his friends will be a blast.
2007-03-10 22:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waking up in the morning gotta thank god/
I dunno, but today seems kinda odd/
No barking from the dog/
No smog/
and momma cooked the breakfast with no hog/
I got my grub on/
But didnt pig out/
Finally got a call from a girl I wanna dig out/
Hook it up on later as i hit the door/
Thinking will i live another 24?/
I gotta go cause i got me a drop top/
and if i hit the switch i can make the assss drop/
had to stop at a red light/
lookin in my mirror not a jacker in sight/
and everything is alright/
I got a beep from Kim and she can f* all night/
Call up the homies and im askin y'all/
Which court, are y'all playin basketball/
hit me on the court and im touble/
last week f*d around, and got me a triple double/
Freakin n*ggas everyway like MJ/
I cant believe, today was a good day/
2007-03-10 22:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your being to difficult. Everyone has to work and we have to find ways around work and the other things in our lives to make time for others. He's offered you to go out with him and his mates so take his offer and have fun. You wouldn't like it if he wanted you to spend every second with him and forgoe your friends so don't do it to him. Work with the situation not against it
2007-03-10 22:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This always happens. Do what you want to do, and tell him " Until I see a ring on my finger, I am grown and I will do what I please ". The ring thing usually scares them and they dont say nothing else.
2007-03-10 22:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by iceez81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your home, make a romantic dinner for two and rent a romantic comidy movie and than do whatever just tell him how you feel be honest
2007-03-10 22:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Melly. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compromise. tell him you want some time to be alone with him and go out with his friends sometimes
2007-03-10 22:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its okay for you to hang with his friends, but you also have to tell him that it would be nice for it to be just you two. balance is key.
2007-03-10 22:47:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋