Im not sure my boyfriend loves me anymore, what are the signs and how would find out?
2007-03-10 14:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by chelsmat2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure my boyfriend loves me anymore, he says he does but his actions speak differently, sometimes i have no doubt in my mind and i know he loves me but then other times he gets in these moods like when he wakes up and he's just nagging at me like a woman, like men say women do to them, am I over thinking or not?
2007-03-12 13:49:08 · update #1
If you doubt it and he knows that you doubt it, that is troublesome. Here are some signs you can look for, does he offer hugs and kisses still, does he hold the door for you, offer a chair, how many times a day does he tell you that he loves you, does he kiss you before he leaves, does he like hugs and kisses from you, stuff like that. Good Luck!
A.L.
2007-03-17 11:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Angelus L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop living with the guy. You two are just 'buying time' in a relationship that is not progressing. If you follow a typical pattern, you will end up pregnant just because you are in a rut and desperate.
You've gone as far as you can and you don't even know if the guy loves you. He doesn't seem to be headed for marriage with you. He probably takes you for granted and is trying to decide why he's NOT breaking up with you when neither of you is into this relationship enough to make a legal commitment.
Look, every relationship has an end. If it doesn't have an end, it's called MARRIAGE. Similarly, everyone gets older; do you imagine yourself in this dead end 10 years from now? Neither does he!
So move on it. Tell him you need a break. If this is the love to top all other loves of your life and the same feelings on his part, then the two of you will go to the next stage - which is legal - and involves your families becoming one big blend of in-laws.
2007-03-18 16:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he's being a nag, causually tell him "Its times like this I question your love... You might not think much of it but it hurts !!"
2007-03-18 16:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by That Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your over thinking it becuse when a guy stops talking to you when you are in love then thats not good i'm sorry to say this maybe hes losing intrest in you or cheating on you idk but i think i would be breaking up with him
2007-03-18 21:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by cookieluvers15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he breaks up with you, then he does not like you anymore
2007-03-18 18:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
2007-03-11 18:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋