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what kind of satisfaction does the other person who moved on gets from that ...!! for example, you broke with your gf, and she has moved on ..and you didn't completely ...what kind of satisfaction are they getting from that ?

2007-03-10 14:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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They don't get any satisfaction. They are probably hoping you will move on, too. If you've ever really cared for someone or loved them, even when you break up with them, you still want them to find happiness.

2007-03-10 14:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yeah that happened to me. my bf broke up with me and it took me a while to get over him, but i eventually did and i have a better life now and then i got wind that he was bad-mouthing me and then he kept looking at me like he wanted me back - i dont know why, but after a year of nothing between us, i think he needs to move on. and there's no satisfaction for anyone. the only satisfaction the other person is getting is being a loser to the other. and there's nothing satisfactory about that at all if you think about it.

2007-03-10 22:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well, hey, looks like we are in the same boat. I'm a girl and i haven't moved on from my BF breaking up with me at all. I don't exactly have an answer, more of a "i relate to you". The guy that broke up with me knows full well i still like him. I think he enjoys the fact that i haven't gotten over him. Self esteem boost. It makes me furious. As for you (assuming your a guy) I'm pretty sure the girl is just like my old BF. She might be enjoying the fact that your not over it. What i suggest you do is what I've been painfully doing for almost 3 months. Fight. Fight through the emotions. Do something to get your mind off of her. I found that reading, writing, playing my guitar, learning anything, watching TV and playing video games worked for me. Do something to get your mind off of her. Then do what I'm doing...look around at other girls(for me, boys). realize that you now are free to look around. Hopefully u go to a big school...my small school has few boys to chose from. Hope this helps.

2007-03-10 22:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by talksalot257 1 · 0 0

Realizing you were not the one. Well not the one at this time right?

A guy broke up with me in 7 years ago, after we were together for 3 years. We didnt talk for 6 moths. 6 months was time for him to relaize he loved the NEW me. 6 months was time for me to grow up and change.
Moved on and everyone always tells me 7 years later, he misses me and messed up.
I care for him as a person, we don't talk. And I do feel sorry for him. He should have moved on.

2007-03-10 22:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mia l 3 · 0 0

it all depends on that person...b/c some ppl do like to see you miserable while their moving on with their lives,especially if you treated them bad they are going to definitely get satisfactory out of it..but i see it like this...if anyone is sitting around gloating over the fact that someone hasnt moved on b/c of them, well i think they may have some issues too...b/c see a person can't be completely over someone if they are getting satifactory out of the fact that someone hasnt moved on.....that means they havent moved on either, b/c they wouldn't waste their time and energy focusing on rather that person has moved on or not in the first place....so technically speaking the person who is getting satisfactory out of it, has not moved on themselves...living well is the best thing to do...not gloating over the fact that someone hasnt moved on....

2007-03-10 23:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0 0

Girls, for exmaple, don't have to feel guilty because you broke up with them. But for you, you may regret about breaking up with them and sometimes think you have made a mistake.

2007-03-10 22:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by =) 3 · 0 0

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