isn't that embarassing?especially if you are a good looking person?how would you feel if that happened to you?
2007-03-10 14:30:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Their loss.
2007-03-10 14:38:25 · answer #1 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are good looking doesnt mean that you are exempt from people using you. If you put yourself out there before finding the right person, you run the risk of being treated like toilet paper- used and discarded.
As far as if it is embarrassing- yeah it makes you think that all you are good for is bootie calls, and if you have a shred of self dignity you would know that isnt the way you should feel...
The only way to avoid that is to begin to respect yourself and wait on the right person. Just cause they are hot doesnt meant they respect you- to them you are ajust another notch on the belt- and trust me, guys dont care about adding notches (unless they are health conscious individuals)
2007-03-10 22:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get myself into the situation, but if it did happen I would be outraged! Sex is a very special thing to be shared only when 2 people feel special with each other, and that kind of specialness does not only last a night
2007-03-10 22:33:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably had sex with you BECAUSE you are a good looking person and they need another notch in their belt. I would have more respect for myself and honestly it would not happen to me. It sounds like casual sex....could it be that is all they wanted you for??
2007-03-10 22:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by AnaBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what we refer to as a one nighter, my dear. Get used to it. Doesn't matter if you're good looking or not, some guy just got into your pants and left. You were easy and he got what he wanted. I wouldn't rely on that "I'm too pretty for this to happen to me" attitude - it already happened because you weren't smart enough to avoid it. Wise up and grow up.
2007-03-10 22:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those the kind of people that they sweet talk to you said they love you just to get you in bed that you don't put out with every dick and Harry come a long either if you with some for 6 month it could have too
2007-03-10 22:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by piglet91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off...don't have sex until ur married. please. second, if this guy did this to you, he's sick. He's stupid and sick. Be careful, because most men in the world are like this. Most men are just in relationships for the physical part of it. I know u probably feel, weak, or lost, or something of the kind. i hope it all gets better. and stop having sex.
2007-03-10 22:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by talksalot257 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find that person you had sex with and tell them you want to have sex again and I bet they take you up on it,because that's what they wanted to begin with,and when they show up get them all worked up and then tell them to go to H***.
2007-03-10 22:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not embarrassing, it's degrading. What you do is learn from the experience and not have sex with people until you know their character. If you knew that guy better, you would have figured out he was a loser before screwing him.
2007-03-10 22:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesson learned you never have sex at the very beginning of a relationship,because things happen like this.Do what GOD tell you, and you never have to wonder why he don't call.
2007-03-10 23:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing embarrassing about it, except that you had sex so early. Doesn't matter what you look like. And I will never find out how it feels, because I'm abstaining from sex till I'm married.
2007-03-10 22:35:06 · answer #11 · answered by ifyoulovehim, t e l l him<3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋