I've been going to the same school since sixth grade with the same people and the same group of guys. Basically, since we all grew up together, none of us ever really found a reason to flirt with eachother. Now I don't know if I know how. I just want some small tips. What are some ways that I can figure out how to flirt without being obnoxious?
2007-03-10 14:28:26 · 11 answers · asked by Rebeccah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Playful teasing's a good one. Try teasing a guy you like about something that wouldn't offend him (for example, the fact that he's late) in a way that sounds like you're just kidding around. It works because the guy will usually be flattered you noticed something about him, and it brings the conversation into a playful mood, which is great for flirting.
Compliments are also a really easy way to flirt. Try to work them into the conversation, like, "Do you play a lot of sports?" and then "Oh, I just wondered, 'cause you look like you work out." Stuff like that.
2007-03-10 14:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by alanna1star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright - try to make your friend/partner laugh. Dont get into dirty talk, but try to cheer up your friend in a funny way. Smile as often as possible. Most of all, watch for body language! Make sexy and cool facial expressions that show meaning. I mean, dont STARE (thats going to be scary!! haha), but gaze nicely... Body Language is the best and probably the easiest way to flirt...
2007-03-10 22:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by coolcman007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. A self respecting woman. You don't have to mindlessly flirt with a man like some dancing circus clown to get his attention. Show me a flirt-er and a serious acting woman, give me the serious one every time. The flirts are all Anna Nicoles to me.
2007-03-10 22:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by clayp72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just happens naturally. Be interested in what they're saying, be smiley, funny but be yourself. Don't go overboard and flirt insanely, it's just appears desperate. Just smile at them and be yourself, if they seem interested and they're smiling back at you a lot then move a little closer. Don't rush things, it'll just happen naturally. Don't worry or think about it too much.
2007-03-10 23:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Emma W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha i love this question. well... Mabe you do flirt but don relize it it kinda comes naturally when you talk to guys. But asll you really have to do is be all smily and bubbly and i dont know playful about everything lol. That's all i have to say.
2007-03-10 22:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is easier than u think....dont freak urself out of it cuz its not that hard...there r sooo many ways: eye contact w/ a cute smile, smiling just as itself, playful hitting haha, calling someone by cutesy names, etc.
2007-03-10 22:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Toria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ur having a conversation be silly with the person. wink at them when you walk past them or you could smile at em for no reason from time to time.
2007-03-10 22:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Trezdons Mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look into the eyes for about five seconds, twirl hair, take off your shoe and twirl it. That is just the basics.
2007-03-10 22:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
laugh at stupid things.... and always stare and when they look at you immediately look away
2007-03-10 22:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ali H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile, giggle at everything, eye him, and lick your lips seductively (just kidding!!!!!!)
2007-03-10 22:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Minor Bunny Engine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋