Well... HAD the worst boyfriend in the world. I just broke up with him and kicked him out a few weeks ago and now I am thinking back on how much I actually put up with... I feel like I just woke up from a nightmare! ALWAYS forgot my birthday, and valentines day. NEVER said "thank you" for any favor I did. NEVER did much of anything nice for me, actually. Cheated on me. Blamed me for any problems we had. Would get mad at me for not wanting sex (even if I was SICK!). NEVER helped pay the rent (he "couldn't" because he didn't have the money, yet he went out and spent $200 a weekend at the bar).... after 6 months of living together he randomly moved his stuff out of the bedroom and started sleeping on the couch. AND.. he never ever appologized or treated me well unless I threatened to leave him or made him feel guilty for how he acted.
Is he the worst boyfriend in the world? Any why was I dumb enough to put up with this for so long?
2007-03-10 14:28:11 · 11 answers · asked by gabbytie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the correct thing. You would be better off with nobody than with him.
2007-03-10 14:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRAVO on getting rid of that sorry excuse of a man that has to be the worst bf in the world mines not that bad but i feel some of your pain also your not stupid you loved him your head was in the clouds and you got lost there for a min but you found your way back to reality and did something about it rather then put up with his bull crap well now he can be someone elses problem and you can move on and find someone who will actually remember your birthday and valentienes day and any other important hoilday
2007-03-10 14:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by ~Lisa~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 19:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst? Probably not, if he didn't physically hurt you or get you involved in a crime or something. But he was pretty darn close to worst. Why'd you put up with him, you ask... well, probably because you kept telling yourself things would get better if only you could make him understand that he was making you unhappy. I bet you kicked him out when you realized he didn't CARE if you were unhappy - all he cared about was having a place to live and some readily available sex. And a scapegoat to blame things on. Good for you for kicking him out. You deserve better!
He never loved you, and if you were nice enough to love him once, you're smart enough not to love him anymore.
Don't call yourself dumb for putting up with him. So many women do that and never wake up to reality. You're not dumb for putting up with him: you're SMART for getting him out of your life!
2007-03-10 14:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by B D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does sound awful, and a loser boyfriend, but you need to leave him, there are worst things, I was beaten for 2 years by my ex, boyfriend, I always gave home with black eyes, broke bleeding nose, and he told me he was going to kill me, if I go to the cops, and put him in jail, but I stood up to him, and now he's locked up still, and I found someone better, that treats me like a queen, and not a punch bag, leave him and find someone else , who will treat you right.
2007-03-10 14:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl never let yourself be treated like that again. We as provider can't help,but take care of people.GOD made women that way,so don't blame yourself for trying to help a loser.Move on a pray nothing else like that comes your way.
2007-03-10 15:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were living with a monster. You're better off taking up with someone who wants you and can't keep his eyes or hands off of you. Someone who loves you unconditionally.
Of course that's your target. So since he wasn't any of the above except a monster, you should forget about him and stop asking questions like this. You know the answer, its in your comments and question.
2007-03-10 14:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, stop being so hard on yourself. I compliment you for doing what you did when you did it. Some women would have kept putting up with it! Yeah, he sounds pretty bad, and not what you deserve. You seem like you have much going on for yourself. Girl, you won't be alone for too long. Congratulations for dumping that loser!
2007-03-10 14:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wont say he is the worst cause there are bf's out there who like kill their gf's or rape them and stuff but thats pretty bad! and u put up with it cause u loved him....i took my ex back after he cheated on me and now i just think WHY!
2007-03-10 14:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would have kicked him out like a year ago!!!
2007-03-10 14:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋