ok i met this women on her lunch break a while ago she gave me her number. she talked to a little and we got together a little later. we hooked up and didnt talk to her for a while. when i called her she met a guy and they were bf and gf. i just called her thursday and we had a nice convo but she had to go eat. shes single. she said ill talk to u later. i called her back the next day and no answer. maybe she was busy i dont know when a good time is to call her. so i left a text message friday saying it was nice talking to u i was wondering if you would wana hang out or get something to eat. give me a call. i havent had a response yet. should i call her and when?? help.
2007-03-10 14:27:22 · 15 answers · asked by jay81486 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like she's avoiding you. I'd wait it out. She has your number now and if she wants to talk to you, she'll call you. As a girl, I get turned off when a guy keeps hounding me. Just lay back and forget about her, she'll get ahold of you when she's ready.
2007-03-10 14:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Alaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I'm sure that she enjoyed your time to. Yes you should try calling her back, she may just be so busy that she can't get back to you so try not to worry too much. You should try calling her like around 9 10nish, that sounds like a good time because it's a time where people are usually home and relaxing.
Okay well I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-10 14:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait another day or two and give her enough time to reply.... she might be out late or out of the city or something or just busy and when she comes home and checks her voice mail to find a dozen messages she'll be soo turned off..... wait then u can try calling again - leave ur number again.... if no reply - move on
2007-03-10 14:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by Zuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've already made two attempts to get in contact with her already...she's knows you called and she's know you text her...what do you want to play cat and mouse games with her? i'm pretty sure your too mature for that....let her get in contact with you this time around don't bug her b/c she'll just start calling you a pest, you don't ever want to seem needy you've tried to get in contact with her twice and failed so hey! let her call you...who knows she may really be busy...or maybe this is her way of telling you she's not interested wich is a coward act....but like i said let her contact you...but if she doesn't oh well! it's nothing lose sleep over.
2007-03-10 14:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you "hooked up" (had sex?), and you didn't talk to her for a while, she may be deeply angry at you for her perceived rejection of her.
She may assume you feel you can use her, drop her, and call her whenever the mood hits you. So I think you probably need to chalk this one up to experience, and perhaps not "use" women like this in the future.
2007-03-10 14:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in her court now. Give it a few days and then if you haven't heard back from her, call her one more time but then don't call her anymore. Good luck
2007-03-10 14:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until she calls back. If she doesn't after a week or so, maybe call her back. In the meantime, don't miss out on anyone new.
2007-03-10 14:32:15 · answer #7 · answered by GreaseMonkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you COULD call her...and at the risk of looking like a pest, at least you'll have talked to her and will know more...which IS what you want, right? So, you have to ask yourself which is MORE important....looking kinda pesky or Knowing!
2007-03-10 14:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by crazynays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do this...Leave her a message while your peeing in a toilet in the background then flush it before you hang up. Girls find that very funny and want to sleep with you shortly after.
2007-03-10 14:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you should cell her and tell her how you feel about her if a message you should steel leave her the message and tell her that you like her only true feeling work
2007-03-10 14:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋