he keeps bothering me. i mean i told the teacher and principle and counselor that he is sexually harassing me. he keeps touching me and playing with my hair.
IT HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR A LONG TIME. they say that he just likes me or something but i am SERIOUS.
i have yelled "STOP!" during an exam because he sat behind me and I GOT INTROUBLE??
i have went to the counselor and told him that he is harassing me and he was called there and he said he wasn't and he was just playing around.
counselor didn't take it serious so i took it to the principal. he talked to both of us and he said next time he will drop the student..
he keeps doing it WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM?
2007-03-10 14:23:54 · 19 answers · asked by sadlonelylife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your mother and father that this jerk is making you feel uncomfortable. I teach dance and one of my students at the time a fifth grader, came to me saying that a boy in her class kept trying to touch her. he touched her chest and one day even grabbed at her crotch. She told the teacher and the principal and they made excuses for the boy saying that he had "emotional problems". I told her it did not matter what problems he had - once she said stop that should have been exactly what happened. This boy has no right to bother you, the teachers and principal have an obligation to provide you with a safe place to learn. If you are afraid to talk to your parents alone - get a trusted adult to help you tell them. I went with my dance student to talk to her parents, I held the young ladies hand and started the conversation with the words "your daughter has something she wants to talk about but is aftraid to tell you and I am here to help her because i told her you were loving parents and that you would listen to her. This young lady is in college today and when I still see her parents they both hug me and have always been greatful that i helped their daughter to understand that they would do anything to help her. Go to your Parents. THey love you and will help you and if they dont then contact me and I will help you find a trusted adult - maybe at your local Boys & Girls CLub? Church? but someone has to help you.
2007-03-10 14:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you, but that is no excuse to harass you or for you to have to take it. As a teacher myself, I know your teacher should have separated you first of all and put you on separate sides of the room. I think your problem is that your principal and counselor are both men. If he keeps doing it and complaining gets you nowhere, take it to the next level. You should file a formal sexual harassment complaint with the school district. This then makes your principal liable for anything that happens and for him not taking any action in the situation. If this is really bothering you, you do not need to take this boy's crap and your principal and counselor should be doing something about it. You also should tell your parent(s) what is going on. Good Luck.
2007-03-10 14:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by J S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's a boy. Most boys are complete and total idiots and just like getting on a girl's nerve for fun. The next time he touches you, threaten to hit him. And if he does it again, really do it. If that gets you in trouble, then tell the teacher what happened and say that you took it to the counselor and the principal and tell him/her that's it's been going on for a long time. That way, your teacher can't get you in trouble.
Good luck with that one. ; )
2007-03-10 14:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by anew_star@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of my friends had the exact same problem all she did to resolve it was knock some sense into the guy, but it may not work with everyone, also the reason you got in trouble during the exam was probably because you yelled.I don't think messing with someone's hair is actually considered sexual harassment
2007-03-10 14:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by hakamori911 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He likes you and wants your attention. He is just way too immature to express himself to you so instead he acts like a jerk. Tell him that you don't want to be around him because you like to be around people who make you feel good not bad.
He won't change until he matures some but it might give him pause for thought.
You could also embarass him for his behavior. Stand up and say out loud "No wonder you can't get a girlfriend" and move to another seat. He will be left sitting alone with everyone staring at him waiting for a reaction.
2007-03-10 14:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the actuality that your giggling while he's doing those issues in all probability makes him think of which you heavily think of that is wonderful or its no longer bothering as much as you assert. i might ask him to end sooner or later after classification, or you are able to say something to the instructor, ask them to circulate your seats faraway from one yet another, or go the immature way and start up stressful him back... your %..
2016-09-30 12:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the principle, the guy does not take you seriously you are just a source of amusement, and you will end up getting in trouble if you keep yelling at him in class, without following up and telling your counselor and principle. also report your counselor to your principle or mom and dad
2007-03-10 14:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He likes you! But it's obvious that you don't like him. He can't take no for an answer. The people you went to are not helping you. They are not doing their job. Have you talked with your parents. They need to talk with someone at your school about this before it really gets out of hand. Before he does some thing that will hurt you and he will regret for the rest of his life. I don't know how old you are but it appears that he is immature. He needs help and is not getting it . They may need to go to his parents to get this straighten out. Stop yelling at him because this is giving him the attentions he's looking for. You need to tell your teacher you would like to set some place else. The teacher must know what is going on. I hope you get this straighten out before it gets out of control. I hope the best for you and someone sees this boy needs help. Maybe you will have to go to the authority (your parents talk to the police) to get this straighten out. If he is touching you this is a crime. Good luck!
2007-03-10 14:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
well it looks like he likes you, but he is approaching you the wrong way... if he is seriously bothering you and the people at the school arent taking you seriously, you should tell your parents.... there is no need for you to feel harassed at school... good luck
2007-03-10 14:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by ~ * ~713PR!NC3$$713~ * ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy obviously likes you very much. Guys do that kind of thing when they like you. Don't let it bother you so much and just take it as a compliment.
2007-03-10 14:32:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋