i have a school dance coming up and it's cool and everything but there r just 3 problems 1. i don't know what to wear 2. i don't know how to dance. 3. i have no one 2 go with (i'm not exactly pretty). what should i do?
2007-03-10 14:21:40 · 18 answers · asked by justme123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually it is better to go with your friends. i took a date to a dance once and i endedup ditching him.........wear a miniskirt
2007-03-10 14:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by jack+ie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things that seemed extremely important in high school are often viewed as totally irrelevant later in life. Try to picture what you'll think of this moment 10 years from now. If you don't go, you may regret it because you'll never have a second chance to be in high school. As for what you to wear, just have someone at the dress store pick one out for you if you really can't decide. They won't sabotage you and unless it's outlandish, three days later, no one will remember what you wore anyway. As for dancing, even an old man with bum leg can slow dance. Slow dancing for high schoolers is little more than stepping side to side. And even for fast dancing, you would have to try really really hard to be the worst dancer in the room. As for not having a date, that's not unusual at all. Many girls choose to go with a group of girls or just with a male friend. The only difference is that if you have a date you're obligated to dance together and again, less than a year later no one will remember or probably care who went with who.
And if you're not even in high school, all things are even less important later in life
2007-03-10 14:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help to know what kind of dance. If I were you I'd wear something casual like a nice pair of jeans and you favorite T shirt. Or if it's a formal or semi-formal wear a cute dress.
As for not knowing how to dance. No one cares, most people who go to dances can't dance. They just grind together and sway with the music.
Don't worry about going with a guy. Go with your friends. It's much more fun anyways.
2007-03-10 14:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for da 1st well invite some friends over and ask them to help u pick out an outfit and if tat doesnt work juss dress as u normally do its better not 2 overdress and 4 da 2nd problem its oki if u dont kno how to dance i mean ur prolly not the only 1 ^^ and u can talk to ur date or friends and for the 3rd problem who cares if ur not pretty and u never kno if ur pretty or not. i think u should ask a guy 2 da dance dont juss sit around n wait for a guy cuz they mite all b taken juss go ahead and ask a guy 2 da dance i mean u never kno. n if a guy goes to da dance w/ u because ur pretty they're juss plain shallow n will prolly ditch u 4 another girl anyways.
2007-03-10 14:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by sdf s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Go with your friends.
2. You don't have to dance. If you want to learn you can ask -- and possibly make another friend that way
3. Why do you need someone ? Will it make you feel better to dance with someone you won't even remember the name of ten years from now unless you take a picture?
2007-03-10 14:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem as a teen ager. I never went to dances because I was too scared. Now I feel I missed out.
If I could do it all over again I would just forget all that stuff and go how you are!
2007-03-10 14:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by brandontremain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple don't go! Before the next dance get a boyfriend, learn to dance and buy some clothes. Why go if your not going to have fun.
2007-03-10 14:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to check urself out in the mirror and say damn! am so fine. go out with ur friends and find a cute outfit and then look for someone who knows how to dance or bye some dance dvd's i think dat would help. BEST OF LUCK, be confident and honey u know u are fine...okay!!!
2007-03-10 14:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wear something that u could think of. look in ur wardrobe for the best one! pick it and wear it. 2nd u don't know how to dance? yes you can dance, if u danced u dance! 3rd u dont need to go out with n e body. nobody perfect! just hang out and chill!
2007-03-10 14:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy so i can't help you with the first two but for the third one just go with friends and have fun. that way you can dance with whoever you want to.
2007-03-10 14:27:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Real McCoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have as much fun as you can! I have the exact same problem as you, all I do is go to the dance with a group of friends and we attempt to dance together. it's a blast!
2007-03-10 14:26:22 · answer #11 · answered by line writer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋