Gotta tough one for those who want a challenge. Guy troubles.....?

Question

So, there is this guy. I love him to death, and he dumped me almost 3 months ago. my feelings are still the same for him, although he has not said a word to me. His reasoning for dumping me is unclear...i think his friends were giving him a hard time and he gave me up for his friends. My first instinct when he dumped me was to move on...but i found it extremely hard.
Yet....I still catch him looking at me a lot. He is always trying to get my attention, and acts shy around me when i get close...just like most men. my friends even persuade me that he still is into me. However...whenever i try to talk to him, in person or online, he cops a very evil attitude. this hurts...because i still like him. O GOSH....what do i do? my mom thinks he's immature (which is true...he's 15 and I'm a fresh 17) o boy...anyone with advice would be wonderful. Here's a few more details. We are a lot alike, we both had the same plans for the future, and i love everything about him.

Answer 1

You may like/love him a lot but the fact is when it comes down to it his friends are more important than you and always will be. Stop looking & wishing for signs he wants you back, keep telling yourself "I want a man & someone capable of being independent not a sheep who just follows the crowd". Keep telling yourself you deserve to be treated better and stop mooching around making puppy dog eyes when you look at him, accept he finished it with you. Pick yourself up and move on

Answer 2

This IS a tough one. In short, he still likes you, I know it. I'd say he's immature if he dumped you just because he didn't have the balls (not to bash him or anything) to stand up to his friends and stand up for you. A man should have the confidence to stand up for the things he believs in and the people he loves. But, like you said, he's only 15. He might change over time. It's hard to let go because you and him have so much in commmon, but you gotta remind yourself that he's still 15 and he may change his plans too and later you and him may not have many things in common. So, waiting for him is a chance that you have to take and may pay off or not. Your situation right now is 50/50. But, it's up to you on whether or not you want to wait for him or move on. Remember, there's always someone else who will share your common ideals. Since you're 17, I'd say wait for college and you'll automatically be directed to people who share at least the same career goals and start from there. If you choose to wait for him, I wish you good luck and godspeed. But a word of advice, people usually don't change that drastically. Good luck

Answer 3

First of all he made it very obvious for you he doesnt really like you and getting back together is not gonna happen. Anyways how did you know he dump you because of his friends because if thats the real reason then why bother and why do you still like this guy? A real guy wont dump a gf just because of his friends, that means he just want to play. so dont waste your time and just move on, and YOUR STILL YOUNG, more guys to see and much better than the one your saying... Goodluck! And guys dont settle until they reach the age of 27-28. so no futures yet lol.

Answer 4

Haha i love a toughie.

1. He still likes you, probably the same way you feel about him, if you catch him looking at you and acting shy.

2. He cops the evil attitude just to get attention, most likely.

3. He is a bit immature for trying to get your attention that way, and may not handle things all that well. Look out. :-/

Answer 5

Move on soon u will be in college and he will still be in high school plz dont misunderstand me age is just a number but u have alot to look forward to in the future your 17 i am sure u will have a few more O gosh ...what do i do? in your life time. have u ever heard (and i may not say this right but) if u love something set it free if it returns its meant to be.My god girl your 17 live your life and make a future for yourself dont worry about love right now and as for the hurt u will have alot of hurt sometimes in your life your young

Answer 6

Whoa girl, hold up. Ok, once upon a time I fell for a guy also 2 years younger. It was great, loved him, he was sweet, and then his friends started their stuff, and where he was young and impressionable he got all pissy and dumped me 2. Now, 3 months later, I am completely over this moron, he was immature, and I learned a very important lesson, go older, or go cry. Younger guys never work when their our age, trust me on this one, he's playing your emotions. I went from 2 years younger, to 4 years older, and it's like a new species, lol. Don't give him a second thought, move on. Good luck.

Answer 7

Hey my name is Carly I'm only 10 but the same thing just happened 2 me.C I had this boyfriend 4 9 years and he broke up with me.It was because of his friends and this girl Hayes that is his "friend".I can not stand her she is a really big drama queen that is a hoe and is very ugly.Now he is wanting me back but every time I try to talk to him he starts going all crazy.So I act like I don't care and it really gets to him.

Answer 8

how long were u together? sorta sounds like he is/was your 1st love, i got dumped by mine just before xmas and im only just getting over him now, it takes a lot of time and it doesnt help that u see him im assuming at school on a regular basis. u need to try and distract yourself whenever he is around and even hang out in diff places so u wont c him. if u really need to ask him in person if u can chat for a bit and try and find out what really happened, if he wont do that then tell him to grow up and keep yourself busy so u dont think about him

Answer 9

First of all, your 17 dating a 15 year old....that is a little weird. Even illegal in some countries. Why don't you skip school some more, experiment with some things, and then see what you think.

Answer 10

I think you need to concentrate on school or something else. Boys, esp. if they're younger are going through changes. He was probably influenced by his so-called friends to break up or he found another girl. or maybe i'm wrong. You may think you love everything about him but why do you let him disrespect you by what he says or how he acts. When you can see a man's HEART and know that he understands what his priorities and goals in life are, You got yourself a real man.