i just got in a with my bf. whenever i talk to him he doesn't listen to me, and when i get his atention he says that i'm being rude. i don't know if i should forget about it. he makes me so mad. i almost want to break up with him. everytime i talk to him about he says that i am over reacting. what should i do?
2007-03-10 14:17:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is trying to make you feel guilty by saying that everything is your fault, which it is not. you should be able to communicate in a relationship. Basically, if your not having fun and he is not respecting you, he is probably not going to change. My advice to you is to dump him. You deserve a lot better than how he is treating you and when you break up he will probably want you back and that i will leave up to you. If you are truly in love with him and you believe that he has changed than go ahead but if he is not, there are plenty of other men in this world. Best Wishes
*~Brooke Zeo
2007-03-10 14:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brooke Zeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at both sides of the issue. I like the saying: "Think twice, speak once." Put yourself in the other person's shoes and ask yourself how would i feel if i was told this? Don't be going off "keeping your pimp hand strong" but if he still is being a jerk, threaten to dump him. And if he starts crying like a little baby (not in the literal sense) and complaining...dump him.
2007-03-10 14:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly at the starting up a bruise is only that, a bruise. A bruise is led to once you bump or hit something confusing, and the blood vessels below the exterior damage, causing you to bleed outside of them. This particularly sounds worse then it truly is. If it truly is been some days, and he hasn't died (from enternal bleeding, which also causes bruises), and that i'm assuming he hasn't, then all there is left to do is wait. Watch the bruises replace colorations. it truly is all you are able to do.
2016-12-01 19:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need to talk to him . seriously. && talk to him calmly . he`ll probably listen to what you have to say if your not just yelling or over reacting. if he still says that your over reacting, maybe hes just using this as an excuse to get out of the relationship so you should break up with him
2007-03-10 14:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to the dynamic between you, and to what sets off the fights.
You're in a critical stage of your life, and as you finish puberty, you'll learn more and more abut how relationships work and how people interact.
2007-03-10 14:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and talk to him about it.. If he tells u ur being rude... u should probably break up with him.. Every relationship needs good comunication skills.
2007-03-10 14:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write each other letters. Thats what I do because thats the only way I can get a word in with my b/f. It seems like my written words are more powerful then my verbal words.
2007-03-10 14:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by iceez81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to break up with ur bf just for this reason, u will never be able to stay with any male......... they are all same. if there is some other serious issue only then think of break up.
2007-03-10 14:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has lost interest in you, i am sorry to say this.don't keep on asking him to listen to you.just stay away from him for some time and see his reaction.if he still behaves the same dump him in a garbage.
2007-03-10 14:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he keeps treating you like that, i'd say to leave him. if he doesn't pay attention to you when you try to talk to him about something little then he isn't going to listen to you when you have to talk to him about something major. you can find someone sooo much better then that guy.
2007-03-10 14:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by PixiFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋