how is this not shallow?

Question

ok lets face it. girls want guys who have alpha male qualities. they only like funny guys, because it shows confidence. they are also attracted to talent and popularity. a lot of girls deny this, but think about it. are you ever attracted to guys who aren't really cool or funny and don't have any special talents? my question is, how come girls don't consider this shallow even though not all guys CAN be funny, talented, or popular, but when a guy is attracted to pretty girls, that is shallow?

alright no more of the 'it's personality not looks' stuff. people have as much control over their looks as personality. but the point is it's not right to only be attracted to good looks. so it shouldn't be right to only be attracted to certain personalities that not every guy can have. and popularity is not a personality trait, it's a luck trait.

i am attracted to a wide variety of girls. 70% of girls are attractive to me. you're average girl would only look at 20% of guys out there. i rest my case.

and i would still accept and enjoy attention from those remaining 30%. but most girls would be creeped out and threatened by attention from over 50% of guys out there.

Answer 1

When you ask the fat girl to the dance, then I will take your post seriously. You are just another geek hoping the supermodel will knock on their door. You don't consider the "ugly" girls any more than the beautiful girls consider you.

Answer 2

Luck trait? Goodness! You need to go see what I wrote about luck in another question. I'll just make it short here by saying people MAKE their own luck.
The guy you just descibed sounds boring. He can't make me laugh. If he isn't talented how can he entertain me? Is he fun???? And I might go out with the best looking guy around ONCE if that's all he had going for him and bores the heck out of me. Btw, that's happened. All he could talk about was his car and daddy's money. And he was fairly popular and considered a good catch by some girls. He played football and was president of student council. Unfortunately, this didn't keep him from being a boring date. When he called...I was sleeping or washing my hair, or otherwise occupied. Back then I suppose I didn't have the guts to say. " No thanks, we are too different and I think we'd both be happier in the long run dating someone else."
Also, an alpha male can take care of me. Just watch nature. The female knows which male is more likely to take the best care of her and her offspring and which male will make strong, healthy offspring.

Answer 3

You make it sound as if guys are the ones that have it bad. But look at it this way. You've dug your own grave if you think that some guys just can't be funny, talented, or popular. You're born with it, you're stuck with it? Fvck that. What it takes is a guy who can get up off his lazy a55 and work to become funny, talented, and popular. We're not all created equal, but that doesn't mean your goals aren't achievable. If you're too lazy to get over your shortcomings, then you don't deserve the prize.

And look at girls. You're ugly, you're ugly, and that's that.

Guys have it good.

Answer 4

I cannot speak for every female but overall I think that we like a guy who is confident, smart, respectful, faithful, loving, romantic, thoughtful, has somewhat of a sense of humor and etc and I think that guys look for the same qualities in women. However I have met guys who I did not necessarily view as the most entertaining but their confidence, thoughfulness, and respectful nature has led me to be even more attracted to them. Again it all boils down to preferences.

Answer 5

Girls might only like guys with alpha male qualities but that has to do with the guys personality and not how they look.

Answer 6

I hear that. You really have a point there. Just think of it as those girls are missing out by not even considering those other guys who are not popular. Trust it, once you get out of high school or where ever you are, those kinds on things won't even matter anymore.

Answer 7

its the way ppl are conditioned today by TV they only lve their lives outward not examining their own life they identify themselves by what they look like & who they associate with, a guy can be all those things but a girl also needs other ppl to want him otherwise there is no value placed on that individual, its very sad & pathetic but the TRUE source to all this is the wallstreet machine, its also very coplicated theory but if u look at most of the worlds problems u can bet its being driven by self-possesed greed mongering devils that control world events & attitudes

Answer 8

actually feel the same way about guys. it seems like they only want a nice body and a skinny waist. but i like the quiet guys. they have the best personalities but no one ever thinks about those guys. so those guys and those girls make the perfect couple. but just remember that they only go out for 5 minutes!

Answer 9

I actually like one of the most unpopular guys in my school and people make fun of me but I don't care. Not ALL people look on the outside. I mean like I said I like the most unpopular guy in my school just because he is nice so don't worry babe!