is it just usery or they just don't want to change thier life style. Do they know ahead of time that they will never want anything serious and just take advantage or what????
2007-03-10 14:07:25 · 18 answers · asked by java348 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummm . . . yeah, I think it's usually a case of them using the girls. Not to mention, nice girls do not generally fall for nice guys easily. Good night!
2007-03-10 14:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about taking advantage of anyone because you can't be taken advantage of if you don't allow yourself to be. They show the girls that they are "bad boys" and the girls still want to go out with them. Whether it be for the adventure or for the possibility of being able turn him into a good guy, the girls go with him. You tell me, can you really call someone a "nice girl" if they like "bad boys?" It's a mutual relationship where both people know what they are getting. Whether he is only in it for the sex or whatever, it is something that the girl approved of.
2007-03-10 22:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And here I was wondering why good girls went out with air-headed jerks from planet mars.
Some do want to take advantage because they may feel the girl is naive or that she may be easier to manipulate. They may feel the Girl wouldn't know if they were to do something behind her back or not notice what's going on.
Other times it's just to show off to their parents ...why... who.. I don't know. It's like look I have a Nice girl.. And then they go cheating on her and sleeping with some wh*re.
I really have no idea.
Some people find it as a game. Amusement. It's a game to see who can mess with more girl's heads first, strip them of their dignity and self-esteem.. and try to get some along the way while making he girl feel they are the only one for them.
2007-03-10 22:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sagira Tadashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they admire the girl and genuinely want it to work, and sometimes it does. People can change, although you can't make someone change if they don't want to. I've seen bad boys change for good girls. But a lot of times making a full 180 like that is just too hard and they screw up or give up.
2007-03-10 22:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by curiousE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually i think might be generally because their attracted to the innocence a nice girl portrays. I'm what you'd call a nice girl i guess and only the assholes seem to be attracted to me. I've actually asked one of them about it and he said it was kinda because i seemed innocent and it's comfortable and securing instead of being a girl who acts just like them. I guess some know ahead of time and some don't.
2007-03-10 22:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every bad boy is different, but I think it is two part challange. Can he get her, and can he resist change afterwards?
I have been with my reformed bad boy for over 8 years, we are happy and have the most healthy relationship of most people I know. Who'd of thought!
2007-03-10 22:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they just might want to change there kife style because every bad boy want a good girl so they do not have to worry about them sleeping around on them.And remember around every bad boy there is a bad girl just undercover you know how that goes.
2007-03-10 22:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of the hunt it is as old as time. The good girls take allot of work to get so it is a challenge. When or if they succeed the thrill is gone and they don't want them anymore next conquest please.
2007-03-10 22:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by quincyurt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats what i wanna know! But i think that the bad guy dont care, he just wanna get with any girl.
2007-03-10 22:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by Lorrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Boys want trophy wives.
They want to have someone they can show off to their bad boy friends.
2007-03-10 22:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋