Ok, here's the story, I met this guy at college and weve been talking on aim now for about 4 weeks. Hes never had the guts to take me or ask me on a date. Today while I was talking to him online, he asked me if i wanted to be his baby, and I was like how in the world can he ask me that if i have never even hung out with him b4. Is this normal, or is this guy psycho?? Also, today he asked me if i wanted to see a movie with him, and I said yes. So , I was waiting for him to give me a day and time, and he never did. I had to sign offline, so I asked him when he wanted to see the movie and he said tmrw maybe. Is this guy weird,should I drop him all together? Why is he acting like this?
2007-03-10 14:00:06 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you spoken to this guy face to face since you met him 2 weeks ago? It might be that you are IM'ing with someone who overheard your conversation, and got your sign-on name. Some kind of stalker.
If you're sure it's the same guy then I'd say cut him loose. Life's too short for this type of aggravation! Jeez - you're in college. There are plenty of guys out there that wont play these middle-school games with your head.
2007-03-10 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by crisagi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've shown me you don't know how to handle a shy guy. All the clues are there.
Well, either you take a crash course in what it takes to date a shy guy, or you stumble thru it together. Don't make fun of him cause hes shy because he does like you. Can't say every date I've had was because the lady liked me. That sure makes up for a lot of things, including shy.
2007-03-10 14:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just nervous and doesnt know what to do. Give him another chance and if he does anything more weird drop him.
-Thats my only guess from a guys perspective
2007-03-10 14:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by GroundZERO 63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him. why would he ask u 2 a movie and then say tomorow, MAYBE? sounds like he doesnt know what he wants. find a man that will ask you out without saying maybe.
2007-03-10 14:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy likes you and is only a little bit scared of the next move. the point is, i wouldn't waste my time on a guy who couldn't make up his mind. there are so many guys out there. choose your pick.
2007-03-10 14:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him immediately he sounds like he is playing games and is not worth your time!
2007-03-10 14:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by over the moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to be safe make the date a double-date. it should make everything alittle less confusing and you won't have any freaky silences. if you like him and he turns out to be unweird then be his girl, and vise versa.
2007-03-10 14:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy has already made a first bad impression on himself. i would say forget about this guy, he seems like he is playing games with you.
2007-03-10 14:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy just wants to get some. i think you should tell him you want to get to know him before you take such a big step.
2007-03-10 14:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by basketballchick17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is having sex with a couple people, needs to fit you in his schedule
2007-03-10 14:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋