I made a mistake, me and my girlfriend were talking about personal apperiances & well, I said something about her teeth because she asked me for honesty, I hurt her feelings, I told her its not like it "bothered" me but I did noticed it, I don't think I lied or maybe I did? If I did, how do I fix that?, It doesn't prevent me kissing her, I just saw her teeth werent perfectly straight or white, Who has perfect teeth anyways? Did I lie?, It's a flaw, I tried to tell her I have flaws too.. but I did hurt her feelings, She doesn't want to break up with me or anything but I know she is hurt, what can I do to make it up to her? I know she doesnt' feel that great right now, thanks for advice
2007-03-10 13:52:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a common problem & it needs to be nipped in the bud. It's a game called over-reacting & the only way to win is not to play. You explained, apologized, etc. Now, you give her some space. If she comes around, fine. If she doesn't, there's a game on tonight. Watch that. (People soon learn what manipulates you & what doesn't.)
2007-03-10 14:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rudy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW... well it's better to be honest and tactful with the truth than telling her a lie. Next time you see tell her that her teeth is what makes her unique and that they with whatever other feature (like her eyes) is what you find to be so attractive about her. In addition, it wouldn't hurt to pick out a flaw of your own, as hard as it may be, and play it up; over exaggerate it in a comedic way and playfully ask her that even though you have this GIGANTIC flaw if she'd still love you (like in funny voice or something) because you love her because in your eyes she is perfect to you.
2007-03-10 22:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hola Lola! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl asks you if she has any flaws, she wants to hear from YOU that she's perfect the way she is.
It's probably puzzling for you, but that's how women work. I would be hurt, too. Now go back and shower her with compliments. Grovel at her feet.
2007-03-10 22:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something speical for her take her out to dinner at a fancy resturant, flowers the whole shabang she probibly feels like if you noticed that that you don't think she is special show her just how special she is.
2007-03-10 21:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her sorry and that you want to see her face again.
When you meet her compliment on how nice of a smile she has.
Touch her face and say everything is perfect, she'd forgive you for sure.
2007-03-10 22:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't lie. Tell her of one of you flaws and that you where surprise she didn't notice it.
2007-03-10 22:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋