I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and i just dont feel a click anymore. So what do i say when i break up with him?
2007-03-10 13:51:49 · 29 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could tell him the truth.... tell him you don't feel the same way you once did about him and that you feel that it would be wrong to persue it any further knowing that the result is that you would be unhappy pretending that he would mean more and that he deserves someone who will be better then you know you would be to him.
2007-03-10 13:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Viv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy but I'll answer anyway. The relationship can't be too serious, I mean you've only been going out for a month. Just tell him the truth, that you don't think it's going to work out between the two of you. You don't owe him any more of an explanation than that, and if he takes it too hard this early in the game then he's clingy and it's a good thing you're doing it now.
That's my perspective, if I had been going out with a girl for a month and she said that to me, I'd just think "ok, easy come easy go." No hard feelings....
or..... you could blow his head off with a 12 guage I guess! That was a funny answer.
2007-03-10 21:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you enjoyed dating him the past month or so but that you'd now just like to break up with him and be friends only.
It's never easy being the one to do the break-up, but it's better to get straight to the point and end it honestly.
Good luck!
2007-03-10 21:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need 2 talk to him, face to face (not on the phone) Tell him, "I know we've been going out for a month, but i don't think we really click together, your a really great guy,but i don't think we right for each other, i'm sorry."
-Me360-
2007-03-10 22:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Me360 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you just told us. It is better to be honest so you wont find yourself explaining for an hour or maby even two hours what the reason is. then you have to hear all the sad details of his life and your finally to the point of just wanting him to leave and be gone so you can get on with your life.
2007-03-10 21:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by valerie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just say it to him straight up or you can:
buy a box of chocolate and lots of red balloons and then write your reasons for the break up in a song form and then have a friend to ring his doorbell and give him the chocolate and the balloons and says its from his girlfriend and then finally sing out the song out loud rite at his porch
2007-03-10 22:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi..wen u go 2 brake up w/ ur boyfriend...first..ask him if he still luvs u and if he doesnt answer at first.....just tell him that youll giv him sometime 2 think and if he takes longer than a day 2 get bac 2 u....just say it nice and comly bu that ur ovr and if he does tell u that he still luvs u...tell him that u dont feel the same way and that u wood just lik 2 b friends...i hope thats good imformation 4 u..ur welcome
2007-03-10 21:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well hunn u should just say that the spark between you and him is just not there anymore ! Thats a reasonable way to say it !Then say "I Think we should break up" !
2007-03-10 21:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him just what you said " i just dont feel a click anymore."
2007-03-10 21:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by ginarose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would say exactly that too. I know how hard it is. I broke up with my super nice ex fiancee of 5 years and it was HARD but you know when it has to be done...it HAS to be done. Don't delay like I did.
2007-03-10 21:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋