what does "to avoid routine, experiment on your sexuality with your partner" mean for a christian?

Question

to do it every month´s last friday instead of saturday?

Answer 1

It means doggy one night instead of missionary and perhaps a BJ once annually.

Answer 2

Well, just for starters, God invented the whole idea of sex in the first place. His followers are going to have a lot more fun than nonchristians by following the guidelines outlined in the Bible. I personally like to pray also, and ask the Almighty to make it great- and God answers prayers.

There is proof that Christians are happier with their sex lives than their nonchristian counterparts.

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Although the religiously committed may be more satisfied with their marriages, could this level of satisfaction extend to their sexual fulfillment as well? Though the majority of the public might view the religiously committed as sexually uptight and thus assume that religious commitment fosters sexual problems and dissatisfaction, research has shown otherwise. For example, Carole Tavris and Susan Sadd analyzed data from the ''Redbook Report on Sexuality,'' a national sex survey conducted by Redbook Magazine, and found that committed religious women actually reported greater happiness and satisfaction with marital sex than did either moderately religious or nonreligious women. In addition, and probably surprising to many, the religious women also reported reaching orgasm more frequently than did the nonreligious women and were more satisfied with the frequency of their sexual activity than were the less committed. Thus, the research would illustrate that, contrary to popular belief, religious commitment can play a role in improving rather than hindering sexual expression and satisfaction in marriage. Religion not only makes for better marriages but, surprise, surprise, better sex in marriage.

Answer 3

Say, believe, and practice "not my will, but yours (Jesus') be done." Listen and be aware of the Holy Spirit's direction in your every day life. Be ready to obey when asked. Love others. Be a promise keeper. Be kind. Be ready to give others an answer about why you believe in Jesus. Be responsible for your own actions.

Answer 4

"Experiment _on_ your sexuality"? That's an odd phrase. Sexuality is one aspect of who you are.

When you can experience being "naked and unashamed" with your mate - when you can be vulnerable and yet safe to take the risk of letting your partner know who you are and what you need, routine is not part of the equation.

The tricks and theatrics are what you need when you can't be open. Honestly, sex is an incredible gift. What couples become bored with is the lack of meaning and connection.

Answer 5

Within marriage, anything that makes both of you feel good.

Answer 6

Big toys, and lots of lube and batteries? I dunno, I'm not jesusian