I feel lonely all of sudden. I notice that I don't hang out that much and stay home in weekend and fridays a lot. I don't know what going on with my friend and i feel left out as well. It bother me when everyone have something to do with some else and not getting invited. While staying home in weekend, I think about what I did and did wrong and found a lot of flaw but I can't fix it. How can I start from here?
2007-03-10 13:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I know how you feel. Sometimes I'm so lonely I ache with it and it sounds as though its a growing epidemic. And its strange because I live in a house full to the brim of people and I still feel completely alone. Its kind of frightening actually. It would be nice to have someone to talk to, so if you want my email is izzib286@yahoo.com. We could talk if you want.
2007-03-10 13:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be dealing with depression and that isn't easy. If you get a chance pull your friends aside and ask them if you did something to offend them, if you did, you can try to apologize. If you didn't, it's possible that you and your friends are just growing in different directions at the moment. As far as what can you do, probably you best option is to look around for classes or clubs for things you are interested in. Do you like crafts or reading or music? There are a lot of interesting things out there. Just look around and see if there is something you hadn't' considered before and look into it. when your friends see you getting involved in other things, they may want to check out what you are doing and you'll be hanging out again. At the very least you will have a chance to make some new friends and expand your horizons. Good luck!
2007-03-10 22:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by ladyflash1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a bad and good times in their life.
1.Do not worry. As you feel bothered when "everyone has something to do with someone else and you are not invited", may be they have something private to talk to each other so they cannot invite you.
2.Think positively, all your friends love you and you too have to show them that you like them.
3.In the weekend you must try to do something you like. Create your hobby. If you have a little piece of empty land in your yard, just grow some plants or learn to grow vegetables. You may feel happy and relieve everytime when you see your plants grow. Do something that physical so you would need more concentration.
4. Do exercise and take balance diet
Exercise can help you to reduce stress..
2007-03-10 22:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by azman aziz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it helps to ask the people that you feel that you have wronged, confront them and talk it over. If you continue to feel flawed and have continued low self-esteem, please talk with a therapist or someone that is trained to help young people as yourself. Try to get out among a small group of people. If you cannot seem to be around people, please seek help from a therapist.
2007-03-10 23:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not you and your friend with a problem perhaps others have to run in a pack for their own self confidence,there is no reason you shouldnt be happy with yourself and self confident about having your friend and yourself do something you both enjoy,no need to search yourself for flaws we all have them,im sure others feel as you do seek them out and have a group with them
2007-03-10 22:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your a boy then you have to try to get a girlfriend and if you do then communicate with her and with your Friends you need to let everyone know your feeling lonely its their job to cheer you up and it might be the first sign of depression ..just talk
mu cuz just broke up with his g/f and hes doing the exact same thing but he wont listen to me well hes 17 and I'm alot younger I'm 11 but i still have good advice!
2007-03-10 21:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
this ones tough...you have to try to find a way to become more outgoing. Try to talk with you're current friends about partys or any other social event and go to it.
2007-03-10 21:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by insanitysk8er 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what are you taking about? you have your friend, thats all you need. do things together, see a movie, play pool etc. what do you think the others are doing and who cares what they are doing, whats important is what you are doing, now step to it!!!!!
2007-03-10 22:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by who me? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well talk to me dogmicjoe@yahoo.com. i know the feeling.
2007-03-10 21:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋