Both of my grand parents on both my moms and my dads side are dating,yes i know it must sound like my family is a bunck of u know what but we arnt. My grampa on my moms side is dating this woman,she is nice but kinda of pushy. The reason my grampa is dating is because i lost my grand mother about 3 years ago on valentines day. I dont really know how i should feel aabout my grampa girlfriend. I really to like her but i just feel so weord because they are moving in with each other.It feels like she is trying to take her place. Well i guess my real question is how do i let my grandpa know how i feel with out being invading or annoying? And with my other grand parent i just gave up!!
2007-03-10 13:31:23 · 4 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, honestly it's none of your business. It is his life. He deserves some happiness too. I'm sure this woman realizes it's a bit awkward for everyone and she is in no way trying to take your grandmothers place. You should be happy for him because he has been able to find someone to share his life with. I'm sure he still misses your grandma, but life is for the living and he deserves to live his as he sees fit.
2007-03-10 13:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since your grandparents are obviously adults, as long as they are single; it is totally their choice who they date or live with.
Would you want the adults in your life telling you who you could date once you are over the age of eighteen????
If you have a close relationship with your grandfather, you can mention to him that you feel like his lady friend is trying to take your grandmothers place. I am sure that he will gladly talk to you and explain that his girlfriend is not taking your grandmothers place, but makes him feel a lot happier than he has been since your grandmother passed away.
If you other grandparents or grandparent on your Dads side is acting in a way that is of concern to you, it is for them and your parents to deal with, you cannot make the adults in your family live their lives by your expectations.
Have a good night.
2007-03-10 13:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your grandparent know how you feel. You should keep in mind though that just because they are older and they are grandparents does not mean their lives are over. They are entitled to have a love life just like everyone else.
2007-03-10 13:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you stay out of it.
2007-03-10 13:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋