Basically saying, what is the best way a guy can go about getting to know you for the 1st time?
2007-03-10 13:13:33 · 10 answers · asked by caramale20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It so depends on the female...
some girls may go for pick up lines, especially if they're naive and don't know any better, those same girls may fall for your game runnin too.
Someone like me who's been around the block...
you wouldn't even get through your first sentence.
SINCERITY, confidence, but not *********......and chemistry is what works for me.
2007-03-10 13:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ORIGINALITY!!
Forget the pick uplines and the "game", women can see through this crap and its insulting.
First and foremost be HONEST. Women love sincerity and thoughtful behavior. If its somebody you see on a regular basis, pay attn. Women give lots of cues as to what they want in a man, and what they respect.
If its a woman you are just meeting, again PAY ATTN. watch her body language, see what will work. Do NOT be pushy, make an obvious opening and let her take the lead.
Any man that has EVER blatently come onto me in some cheesey way has never gotten past the pathetic lines and "player" attitude. If nothing else, I have a tendency to make an example out of them!! lol
2007-03-10 21:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Originality!!! A guy couldn't get me with pick up lines, and game won't work because I recognize game. So he would have to just come at me. What guys don't realize is girls dig the guys that just approach them. Don't come with game, come with respect!
2007-03-10 21:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know, cuz i dont like being 'hit' on. i prefer someone to just start with a greeting and a reason to come talk to me.
''...you look bored. are you having a good time? what do you think of this place. just general questions that arent invasive are best
2007-03-10 21:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no pick up line. Good Game I guess
2007-03-10 21:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. We don't want you to act one way if it's not who you are? If you empress us by acting like someone you're not then your going to have to pretend throughout the whole relationship.
2007-03-10 21:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
game
2007-03-10 21:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words.
Staight
Honest
Foward
2007-03-10 21:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kiko Azura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her brother to tell her that you like her. or just pass her a note. check yes or no.
2007-03-10 21:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just being himself, is the best way.
2007-03-10 21:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋