he broke up with me cuzz we fight to much an we have been dating a very very long time an i want him back what can i say to really get to him an want me back?
2007-03-10 13:04:48 · 25 answers · asked by hickie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Something that women never say but is nearly always true "It was all my fault and I was wrong".
Just be ready to call for a paramedic when he drops dead of shock.
2007-03-10 13:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First try to look at your self and figure out what really the problem and the cause.Then after recollecting, change for better. After that, pray hard and ask strenght and guts. Try to recall what your bf weakness and hit him that way. Plan a romantic dinner together but be sure your ex bf is in the good mood. Or try to call him and from there you should show some interest that you want him back. Get his attention again. A romatic card will do also. And write all there your past that dont makes you not forget for the rest of your life. try to be sweetest and loving for this time around so you won't be in trouble again.More action and less words.
2007-03-10 21:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by pink_blossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you take your relationship way too seriously to let it go over fighting. Maybe you need a third party involved like a counselor. Tell him you are willing to do whatever it takes to work it out. If you still continue fighting before you see a counselor, hold your tongue and try not to initiate fighting, even if you feel it coming on. Let some of your anger go. You dont have to tell him every angry thought in your head. Go to the gym or do yoga or something as a stress reliever until you go to a therapist. If you have been together for that long and really want it to work....sometimes silence is golden.
2007-03-10 21:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to move on. After you've been with someone for a long time it's hard to imagine life without them. On the other hand, if you're willing to work to get him back, he obviously means a lot to you. If you run back to him though, your relationship will become one in which he feels superior because you're the one that came running back. Later he might hint threateningly that he's going to break up with you. Sometimes dealing with that isn't worth it.
But if you still want him back after thinking about it, tell him your sorry and that you want another chance. But if he says no repeatedly, at least leave with some dignity so you can be friends later.
2007-03-10 21:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really say the magic words to get him back. But you can try to talk calmly about what was going wrong with your relationship. Sometimes relationships do need a break, or they are really at an end. Just remember that there are other guys out there and that if you guys are really meant to be you'll find a way to work out your differences.
2007-03-10 21:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by glofairi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably a good idea that he broke up with you if you fight too much. Maybe you're not as compatible as you thought. Take this as a learning experience, move on and find a new boyfriend.
2007-03-10 21:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lost Poet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...you are in one of the toughest situations. All you can truly do is work on yourself. Take care of you and be there for him as a friend. Correct all of the things that cause the two of you to fight. If you two are in love then there is still hope. You have to just be there for him though. It won't be an overnighter, but swallow your pride and do all it takes!
2007-03-10 21:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
angie here
id like to say that just tell him your sorry that we fight so much but lets try it one more time and next time we think were gonna fight then think of the good times youve shared with eachothr and go from there and never say words or do anything youll regret later bc words and actions you cant ever take back and always rember dont ever go to bed mad or angry my hubby and i made a promise to each other that wed never go to bed or anything mad at each other no mater what wed always talk it out
2007-03-10 21:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really miss you and I love you.
or
Maybe we can work it out and keep going on with our love.
or
Every single day, I love you even more but theres a reason why we argue. Its because that means we are comunicating and you know life is not that simple. Like 1+1 it may seem easy or hard to different people but my love for you is only something we can understand.
or you can cut it down to
Many things people may not understand but my love for you its as easy to understand as a1+1.
( i just got this from what I would say to my bf<--- if i had one that is)
2007-03-10 21:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kiko Azura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking why do I like to fight all the time.
He is nice,sweet,and good looking and what,what,what is
the problem.You probably are addicted to the intensity of
arguing,fussing, and fighting.Balh,Balh,Balh.
Get yourself straight or say good night.It's insane to keep this up.So resolve it or quit it.You are the problem...It's better to Love then to war.
2007-03-10 21:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋