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My bf and I have been dating for about 5 months to date. We're both really busy and hardly see each other but we're in love and pretty much live with one another. I realized lately we hardly go out and do things together. Maybe it is just because its winter? I never see him during the day, and if i do its watching tv. We've gone out to dinner and such recently but I wish we'd go out more but CAN'T! Help me, he just sent me a text asking if i was getting bored with the relationship so obviously its showing a bit. How do I respond and tell him I miss him.
2007-03-10 12:47:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The biggest part of a good relationship is communications ...face to face is best so you can see how he really feels and he can see how you really feel. Turn off the tv and sit and talk, tell him what is on your mind because he can't read it. You will both feel allot better afterwards.
2007-03-10 13:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by quincyurt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People work and go to school relationships wind up getting into a rut. Its not over or the end of the world. I agree that in the winter there are less things to do, but thats when you need to plan ahead. Especially if you both work or go to school or whatever. Make a special plan to go to a movie or get away for a weekend. I dont know how old you are, but maybe if you live together, have some friends over and enjoy other peoples company. Sometimes other people and getting out a bit can start new conversations and more things to be excited about, just simply because its something to look forward to. Good luck. It will work out.
2007-03-10 20:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with your bf, tell him how you feel. If you dont tell, then your relationship won't improve or may be going downhill. Well you both are really busy, so that explains why you two never have the time to do something really nice and fun together. Im thinking he feels the realtionship is boring too, so he feels the same way with you. So discuss about this with him and try to work some stuff out!
2007-03-10 20:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him know that you want to go out and have fun with him but you understand that you and him are busy most of the time so you dont have time to do the things that you guys want to. But set a date and things you wanna do together and plan it! take a break from all that working and give eachother time to be together for the whole DAY! or even a WEEK. Make your relationship strong. When you dont really see eachother you'll slowly losing bond. So make it up and have fun! you'll never regret it.
2007-03-10 20:53:37 · answer #4 · answered by honeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an important part of being in a relationship is beng able to be comfortable in eachothers company. how about renting a movie? or getting a take-out? bord games are always fun.....esp monopoly! then there is always a nice walk with eachother. just remember...you dont have to spend money to have fun! just make the most of the time you have together, and dont fall into a boring routine!
2007-03-10 20:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by fifs_c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you miss him. Tell him y'all need to start making time for yourselves. Set a date up for a specific day, time and event. Do that for awhile until it becomes natural. It just sounds like maybe y'all have started taking the relationship (and each other) for granted and now it is starting to show.
2007-03-10 20:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by sassynsweet1221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you wish the two of you could spend more quality time together and not just in front of the TV. Let him know he is still important to you and what he means to you.
Good luck
2007-03-10 20:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you two really love each other. Sit down and discuss this problem. Maybe you can have a date night or something.
2007-03-10 20:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him something like this:
'I just want us to do something more. I miss you! Let's go do something tonight'
Or tomorrow night, or sometime this week. Let him know that you love him, and that you want to just go out and do something. And make sure he knows that you miss spending time with him.
2007-03-10 20:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why CAN'T you go out more? respond by TELLING him you miss him!
- Cristal
next time he is in the room throw yr arms around him and tell him you are glad that he's with you an plant one all over his face!
-Cristine
2007-03-10 20:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by silent sisters cristal/cristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋