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I've been living with my mother, step dad, little brother and sister and my step dads mom ever since i was 4 years old.
Everything went fine until couple of years ago, I'm 15 now.
Everything started when my grandma(my step dad's mom) started to yell at me at home, telling me to clean the house everyday and stuff. That I'm lazy and have a big mouth when she tells me to do those stuff. If she tells me to do those things I do it. Do you see me talking back to an old lady? nope.
Okay. my mom did tell me to change, but what did I do? what DO I do? That old lady hates me, because I'm not her real grand daughter. Why is she being like that to me? and not to my little brother or sister? I'm so depressed right now. MY grandma hates me, i don't have a good relationship with my step dad, I don't have a father anymore, and my grandma hates me. Today, I called my friend from school to bring my spanish work to me because we have a huge test on monday. I called him from my house phone, which I never

2007-03-10 12:42:21 · 2 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family & Relationships Family

which I never do. So I called him and he's all like I lost the paper and I can't bring it, so I tried calling him but he was nothing picking up so i got pissed.and so someone called on my mothers cellphone asking why the house number is busy, so my mom was like "BECAUSE OF HER OFCOURSE LIKE ALWAYS!!!" so I was like huh? what? So im not allowed to just call and ask him about something for school!!! and she got pissed and started yelling at me. After that I was sooo bored so I asked her if I could go to the mall with my BFF, she told me I couldn't and I kept begging her. few minutes later shes like.. want to go to the mall with your cousin? then I'm like WHAT!!No, it's okay first you're telling me I can't now you telling me I can, no leave it.. THEN SHE GOT PISSED AGAIN.. telling me.. you little whore and stuff.
It hurt me so bad I dont know what to do. my best friend kows about this, she even worries and cries about this. I just want to walk out of this house ='(

2007-03-10 12:53:18 · update #1

2 answers

Well u r a teenager and they r not easy people to live with. Everything is about them and wat they want. It will pass u just need some time to do some growing up.

2007-03-10 16:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0 0

What your mother said to you was evidence of poor parenting! Words can be so hurtful, especially when the hurtful words come from someone you love and respect! I would not recommend lowering yourself to that level.What she said to you is actually emotional abuse.You do not have to put up with that.If you're still a child in your mothers home you can call child protective services.They can offer some councelling for you're Mom so she can realize how hurtful words like that really can be! Also, and most important, pray for her. She obviously has issues. Nothing is too big or too small for God to handle.God just sits there waiting to hear you talk to him. Even if this is what your mother thinks of you, don't worry! Jesus always loves you and he knows your true charactor.

2016-03-28 23:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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