2007-03-10 12:42:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's all about the small talk......trust me. And it's an art. You can really impress her by talking mostly about HER when you call. Ask her about favorite hobbies and interests before asking her out so you can get a better handle on where to take her. And I do hope you will suggest picking up the tab, which is customary since you're the one asking her out instead of vice versa. If she insists on going dutch, put up a bit of resistance then concede if she's really persistant. She'll appreciate the fact that you wanted to try and save her some money. Also, choose the place carefully. A first date is one where you get to know each other and to see if there's enough of an interest to make future dates. So keep it quiet. You can't talk in a movie theater or rock concert. A quiet dinner is better, followed with some miniature golf if she's interested. You can tell alot about someone when in playful competition. Or bowling, pool etc...... Now, as for the end of the date. Give her a kiss on the cheek or hand. I know it sounds old fashioned, but it shows you respect her. If she wants more, she'll let you know. Well, that's about it. Have fun!
2007-03-10 12:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Gayle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Awww That's so sweet. Just be nice and tell her you've been thinking about her a lot and was wondering if she'd like to go out sometime with you and if she says yes, tell her whatever time and day would work for her and if she says she isn't interested in you that way, accept it and tell her you understand but ask her to give it one date maybe and learn more about you before she decides and if she still says not interested then say okay dokay. Well never hurts to ask right? She will say sure and if you can't go out as a romantic thing, you can at least make a new friend. So look at it that way and if she says yes, even better! Don't be afraid to be the real YOU though. Don't put on a fake voice or opinion just because that's what you think she wants to hear. If she is going out with you, she needs to know who she is really going out with! Good luck!
2007-03-10 12:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-24 19:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small talk only looks like your weak. Girls want to know they are the best. By not beating around the bush and just asking will impress her more. Whether they admit it or not girls like a guy who takes control. Dont just ask her out...ask her to go someplace specific.
2007-03-10 13:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by csiders30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it! :)
I'd keep the small talk to a somewhat minimum, but lead that talk to something that you know she may be interested in...and then go into it like "hey, I like that too! Would you perhaps want to get together and check it out?"
That could work out and if she says no.....then no big. At least you took the chance.
2007-03-10 12:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Share your game plan with her.
"Hi, it's Fred. Do you have a few minutes for some small talk before I ask you out?"
2007-03-10 12:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her. forget the small talk, it'll only make you nervous. the worst she can say is no.
2007-03-10 12:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just know what your going to say and when you say small talk, dont talk about like boring things like the weather...good luck
2007-03-10 12:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
there is definately no harm in asking hon. trust me its not as hard as it seems, anyhow the worst she can say is no and you can move on.
2007-03-10 12:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by PyroPixie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont choke. If you dont ask her out and you want to you will kick yourself if you dont
2007-03-10 12:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by dodgedifferent01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋