christians, if your son asked you for help since he doesnt know whether he is gay, what would you do?

Question

would you ever consider paying him a prostitute (female) for him to find out?

Answer 1

Offfer him this article...
http://emp.byui.edu/marrottr/GenlAuthorities/Same-GenderAttractDHO.htm

Answer 2

You should show him that you love him, eg tell him that you love him and tell him that you are very proud of him. This will build is strength as a man.

We all need this from our fathers.

Please do not get a prostitute, being with a woman you are not in love with gives one a false sense of worth, this will not help your situation.

Answer 3

Ok, I am not a christian, but I do have an opinion on this. Getting the kid a hooker is a horrible idea. It wont make him straight. I would strongly suggest family counseling with a non-judgemental professional therapist.

Answer 4

I would tell him, " Sweetheart, I love you. It does not matter to me what sexual preferance you have. It doesn't matter to God. He made you the way you are supposed to be, and that is a blessing, no matter what the world thinks. If you are unsure, you have plenty of time to figure out more things out about who you are and where you want your life to go."

Answer 5

I would talk to him about sin and its consequences. If he CHOSE to be gay, it would be his decision. I certainly wouldn't complicate his decision with another sin of lying with a prostitute.

Answer 6

I'd do what it takes and accept the worst, unless he kills people or rapes or is a child molestor. I would draw a line at those things.

Answer 7

Christ does not make gay people the make themselves. check out the scripture. God does not make mistales and he says a man with a women and a women with a man only.. thats it, no excuses. plain and simple..Gay is not the way.