i like this guy and i think/hope that he likes me...wut do i to to impress him and make him like me? i want him to feel comfortable to talk to me....how? and hopefully i want him to ask me out!! HELP!
2007-03-10 12:29:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men like real women.....
so don't try to be someone else !
accept yourself, your life, your dreams, hopes and the stupid things you hope no one ever finds out about....
if you like yourself, others will like you also
2007-03-10 12:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The people who told you to use sex or show your breasts are pitiful. If you have to impresss him or do things to get or keep him that involve sex, he's a jerk and not good enough for you. So many girls make that mistake and then the guy leaves and you feel like dirt. Start a conversation with him like asking what TV shows he likes or what video games he likes. Ask him out or ask if you can call him. You can always tell him that you like him and see if he feels the same about you. He may be shy or a jerk so don't take a "no" personally. Just don't buy his love with your body or sexual behavior. If you do you'll never know if he likes you or is using you.
2007-03-10 12:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by LoB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. You want to leave an impression on him 1st, don't be very eager. Give him the ideal that you like him but leave it kind of vague. see if he probes more. In the mean time engage him in good conversation, not about exes, sex and such. Your mission is to glean information as to what he is into. then go out on the Net, or where ever and get info on it. If a guy believes the girl he fancy has his interest you have leaped heads and shoulders in front of the rest. Dress sexy but not too "in your face". You want to stimulate his visuals as much as his mind. You want to be like that sexy enigma, that hot puzzle that keeps creeping into his mind at odd times of the day. But basically you find out what he has missing in his life and YOU find a way to fill it. He will not know what he can do with out you. Once you have him primed, ask him to coffee, something low key or and nonromantic. When you are their invade his space, touch his fore arm, shoulder, lean towards him but not like you are going to kiss. Then he knows you are not afraid of him or afraid to get close to him and he might try to lessen the distance now that he see he will not freak you if he does. Hope that is a good start for you.
2007-03-18 08:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him out? You can't make someone like you and you can't act a certain way to get him...be yourself, you might be surprised and he'll really like you for who you are! But be really impressive and ask him out. Guys love confidence and are always flattered when you make the 1st move!!!
2007-03-10 12:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by William's Mum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have a nice conversation with him, and let your personality shine through. Be an interesting, fun person to hang out with. (Wearing expensive clothes/perfume really doesn't help that much, since most guys don't even notice that kind of stuff). Good luck!
2007-03-10 12:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be yourself and if he doesn't like you for who you are, he doesn't deserve you. You need to be confident and find the perfect guy for yourself. Don't try to be someone else for the guy.
Also, don't listen to all those idiots out there who tells you to flirt and be sexy because those stuff are more for games. Guys might like girls like that just so they can use them. Those guys are not even real men because they are so immature.
2007-03-18 04:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impressing him is probably not the way to go. Get to know him. Why not ask him out?
2007-03-10 12:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your qualities stick out them own. Be natural. Be yourself. It is better loved for the person you are and not Barbie. Trust me. By then, you would know if the guy love you for you and if he does not like u for u it shows him to be a Ken.
2007-03-10 12:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are attracted to confidence (not arrogance) and most men don't want a needy and clingy women..it's a big turn-off.
also, this might sound corny....but be urself and act normal....u can't really make someone like you......either they like u or they don't...and it doesn't help to act in a way that u think will make him like you because you wont be able to keep the act up forever...
2007-03-10 12:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by animalmother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to hard. Be in the same place at the same time. Don't force it. If something happens, then go with it.
2007-03-10 12:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by Todd M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him make eye contact and give me compliments, nothing over the top and don't begin to look like a hooker, this guy will think that your easy and won't try to get to know you
2007-03-10 12:39:25 · answer #11 · answered by mrnonoffensive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋