I found our my bf been using escort service for a year and we been going out for 8 yrs. What does that mean? He has been talking about saving money to buy a house and getting marry and having kids, but at the same time he is activily using services. I think he is addicted to the service and it worries me. How can I live on forever like this?
I know he loves me but I don't know how to digest this or make of this?
ANy advice?
2007-03-10 12:24:01 · 8 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he's cheating on you with whores and you need to break up with him. If not for your emotional well-being then for your health, before he comes home and gives you some STDs or AIDS.
2007-03-10 12:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by robot_hooker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men have sexual fantasies that they are ahamed for some reason to share with their partner. Maybe he is afraid you'll think he is silly or a prevert for want you to try new things. Talk to him about it, give him confidence and ask him if there is something new he would like to try. Ask him to be completly open about it. Let him know he can find the same level of expression with you and even more. Believe it or not men are driven by many insecurities that we are too stubborn to share. Be his best friend and show him that with you he can find better pleasure that with and escort.
good luck!
2007-03-11 04:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kat fish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you or do you not want your kids to grow up with a father that uses hookers? If yes, then stick with him. If no, then find a new boyfriend. He doesn't love you enough to make you happy if he's going and getting some other places. Once a cheater, always a cheater...don't forget that.
2007-03-10 12:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by JLB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah they call it Dumping his sorry a--! geez dont you understand hes not wanting the same love from you that your thinking your gonna get from him? he's needing other pie to your not the one hes needing. It just kills me to see people come in here ask such questions "anybody" in they're right minds would not accept this crap for a second!
2007-03-10 12:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of new ways to make him happy in bed,so he doesn't have to use any service.. you are not pleasing him,
and i think it's time to move on unless you like 3 somes in your marriage when and if you get married..I WOULDN'T
2007-03-10 12:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by CHICKIE593 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. If he's been sleeping with whores for a year he probably has STDs and could easily givethem to you.
2007-03-10 12:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a liar and a cheat, and you don't understand.
2007-03-10 12:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to hima about it a escort service is a sex service. ask him wtf is going on just talking to him figure everything out
2007-03-10 12:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋