You are more than likely having these repetitive dreams because your intuition may be correct. Sometimes, us girls have an inkling that when something is wrong, either one way or another, the signs are made very clear to us--in your case through dreams. It doesn't necessarily mean you are insecure. Try this. Ask yourself, "What has my boyfriend done in the past (or is currently doing) to trigger such dreams?" and "Why am I continuously having these dreams about him cheating on me?" Now if you were in a relationship before you met this guy and were cheated on, then maybe you are afraid of it happening again. That's not insecurity. It's called being hurt and that isn't fun for anyone, male or female. If this is something that is truly disturbing you (which I think it is), then bring it up to him and watch how he responds to you. If he is uncomfortable with you bringing this up, then you know something is wrong. Time to move on. If he, however, assures you that everything is fine and not to worry, then count your blessings and enjoy your relationship. Once you overcome this fear, I bet you won't have the dreams anymore. Good luck with everything and try to keep positive!
2007-03-10 12:26:24
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answered by charmed4evr 2
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Your dreams just show your fears and your desires, they don't have evidence of your boyfriend one way or the other. Make sure you don't try to punish him for your dreams, he will just get angry that you did and rightfully so.
That said, this to me is a warning sign that perhaps you are seeing things that make you mistrust him. Think about this, and see if you have any real reasons to suspect him...phone calls with people hanging up, being late continuously, going places at strange times, etc. Then confront him with those things and ask him to explain them. If you have no real reasons then pass it off as insecurity and see a therapist if it persists.
2007-03-10 12:26:57
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answered by mark63049 3
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Maybe its just a manifestation of your insecurities..without noticing you might think about your boyfriend and wonder if he has or will ever cheat on you and so this thought lingers in your brain and when you fall asleep, you have dreams that manifest this same question..but it doenst mean he is cheating on you, nor does it mean its a premonition, although there has been instaces where dreams come true..but if you feel insecure just ask him if he is cheating on you..
2007-03-10 12:20:48
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answered by sinful vampyra 4
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It's a bad sign in that you are obviously concerned that your boyfriend is cheating on you but there is nothing else that can be told from what you say. Dreams are just that and nothing more.
2007-03-10 12:20:02
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answered by noonenowhere23 3
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This is just a simple sign that you're afraid that your boyfriend is going to cheat on you. I'm sure nothing's going on, and your mind is just playing games. Try not to worry about your dreams too much. :) Sweet dreams...
2007-03-10 12:19:55
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answered by julia 6
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i think of you'll be able to nicely be insecure because of the previous and you're petrified of your bf cheating on you. do no longer stress your self out too lots on the dream itself, do no longer permit it get to you in that way and permit it impact your college artwork. i understand each and every thing is often much less annoying reported than carried out. whether it definately does not advise your bf is cheating on you :)
2016-09-30 12:14:32
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answered by ? 4
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go to dreammoods.com
here's what it says:
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.
2007-03-10 12:18:16
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answered by xoxox 5
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I could be that your brain is using that to raise your blood pressure or something. Dreams mean nothing, other than you are sleeping well.
2007-03-10 12:20:12
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answered by steve.c_50 6
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that is a sign that you dont trust him and if you tell him and he acts like he is then you are right so check into it.
was someone else in his life b4 that you know if so then that may be why you are having the dreams. I think you should not know the other people that your man was with b4.
2007-03-10 12:22:36
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answered by Anonymous
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It could mean anything or nothing at all. You might feel insecure about yourself that you dream about your guy sleeping with another woman. Or you don't fully trust your guy. But it could also mean nothing at all too.
2007-03-10 12:20:17
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answered by B.J. 3
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