I have been waiting for the guy I really like for three months. We flirt with eachother all the time. I really feel comfortable around him. I have a feeling that he likes me and many of my friends also say that he may like me. My best buddies tell me all the time that he likes me. I'm not sure what to do. He is really shy and so am I. That's why I like him, we are very similar. Right now we are very good friends and I want to keep the friendship. But I also know that there is potential for a successful relationship. Should I hang back and wait for him; or go for it? If i should go for it. how should i do it?
2007-03-10 12:01:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You contradict yourself... You say you feel very comfortable around him, and also say you are good friends. If this were so, you would not need to ask the advice of strangers, you would feel comfortable telling him how you feel. No one can really tell you how to proceed, it has to be your decision on how and when. You just have to wait for the right time.
2007-03-10 12:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Speedy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT.
i was in the exact same position this time last year. this guy & i had been best friends since we were six, and then we started hanging out more & more. we called each other all the time, but we were both really shy and neither wanted to ask the other out even though we both knew we liked each other. one night i just called him and said 'look, i really like you, and maybe if you like me too, we could try things out. but if things don't work out, promise me we'll at least try to be friends. and if you don't like me as more than a friend, please just tell me now.'
i would recommend probably doing something along those lines.
and don't worry about your friendship, the guy & i have since broken up, and at first, things were very awkward, but now a couple months later, everything is alright, & we are as close as we have ever been.
good luck! ;];]
2007-03-10 12:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by you - with the face :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him chase you when he is ready he will step it up. Its VERY good to be friends before you become lovers. When your friends you can get to know each other and you have to time to adujust and be comfortable with each other. You two are smart and are doing the right thing. Just be patient. He will make a move when he is ready. He likes you and you like him, there is no rush. You dont want to rush the relationship. He is shy so he probably isnt totally comfortable around you just yet. Give him time.
2007-03-10 12:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since both of you are friends and shy, why don't you invite him to a group date with your friends. Both of you would be comfortable because you won't be alone. Get to know each other slowly and that's usually the best way because slow developing relationships last longer. Be each others best friend, be there for one another and make each other laugh; those are the most important elements of a relationship. I know, I've been happily married for 11 years.
2007-03-10 12:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by nixdad96 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself that if you would be willing your friendship just to ask him out or tell him how you feel. There is no turning back. You either take the risk and maybe have a relationship or you don't and just be friends and wait for HIM to maybe ask you out.
2007-03-10 12:06:41 · answer #5 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. but be subtle.
wait for the right time, and flirt with him. i am a guy, so here's what i would do. i am shy, so i wait until there are no risks- i am a pussy. so just be cool, don't go and show it all, or confess ur love. flirt and let it develop. do not wait for him to make the move, because he is probly waiting for u.
good luck, hope it works out! : )
2007-03-10 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Baqtist22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 12:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself that you are both shy. He probably want's to ask you out, but can't work up the courage to do it. How about you ask him to go get coffee, or do something like that, where its just the two of you and you can see how you get along when you are alone. If it works out, just ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend.
2007-03-10 12:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you like him, go for it, Confidance is sexy and it lets him know you are really interested. The worst that could happen is him saying no and you continue to be good friends and try again later.
2007-03-10 12:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go. You would like it if he would go for it (because he's shy, like you). Just go. Every guy likes it when a girl makes the first move.
2007-03-10 12:06:09 · answer #10 · answered by koooone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋