besides the whole "death and disease and babies" thing, do condoms ruin the yummy skin to skin thing? Are they just a big downer?
do you tempt fate and take your chances or have you found a way to use condoms and still have fun?
2007-03-10 11:57:17 · 20 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It might not be the condom itself, but just the need for protection that turns people off. Everyone would like it better if they could just do the deed RIGHT NOW without taking extra precautions.
2007-03-13 05:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they don't ruin the fun. You're still having sex and rolling around in bed with someone, and your skin is touching everywhere else! Why tempt fate? You won't be having very much fun when you are asking the Dr. why you have sores on your wiener! Or when you are working overtime to be able to afford to pay for the baby on the way.
2007-03-10 12:02:08 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear God, have any of you people heard of STDs. Condoms are not only made to prevent pregnancy, aside from abstinence it is the next best way to protect your self from STDs, birth control pills and other devices cannot to that. Yes, flesh to flesh may feel better but remember 5 minutes of pleasure can bring a lifetime of pain. So next time you decide not to wear a condom think about what it will feel like when the doctor tells you, you're HIV positive.
2007-03-10 12:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by trinigal33167 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't ruin the experience. Its a little difficult to replace the awesome flesh to flesh feeling, but better safe then sorry right. Try different condoms every once in a while. Flavors, colors (Its fun to say you you got a big black fist of fury sometimes... unless your black... and then you always do...never mind), try ones with studs, twits, things like that. You find the fun in condoms.
2007-03-10 12:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by espactor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, I agree that condoms you take the fun out of action ,but I think that you can find away around that because $$x is really what you make of it so what ever you put in it is really what you get out of it. so the best thing that i could tell you is to relax your mind and let it flow
2007-03-10 12:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah they are try birth control that what me and my ex did we were together for a yeah and a half though we also used the pull out method sometime we didnt really care though and just didnt use anything. and i dont have anything she dosent and no babies. condoms kill not all but alo of the pleasure plus the cut off my cocks circulation
2007-03-10 12:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, i think it depends on people how they feel if they use it.
But, from my experienced. I don't like using condoms at all because for some reason it kinda stings and smelly. It itches and messy afterwards.
There's always another way to making love not using condoms.
In my case, i have what they call "I.U.D." and i love them.
2007-03-10 12:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by MizBeingCute 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. That is a myth begun by irresponsible men who are to lazy to use something that may help save their lives or the lives of their partners. The experience is the same.
2007-03-10 12:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by YouGotTold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well one they kind of ruin the mood because your all into it and ready but you have to stop to get the condom on and two it feels much better without them. i dont use them anymore because ive been with my guy for four years today, but i definetly recommend them if your not ready for kids or any other "little suprises" lol. :]
2007-03-10 12:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It takes too long (especially when nervous) and reduces the feeling you get. Get the pill or Nuvaring.
Never. Ever. Take your chances.
2007-03-10 12:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by koooone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋