I love this girl and she told me she loves me, even now. We do stuff together like go to movies, we even talked on the phone for 10 hours one Saturday. After a month since her last relationship and us being constantly asked "are you going out.. yet" I asked her out and she said yes. Three days later she dumps for another guy. I still talked to her every night and still do, more so than the guy she dumped me for. 2 weeks after she dumped me she starts going out with the other guy. They're going to break up soon, just a gut feeling. I want to go back out with her, but should I? We still talk about everything, she's like my best friend but i don't know. What should I do?
2007-03-10 11:56:25 · 11 answers · asked by Zbas92 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants a bad boy. Less worrying questions... more authority.
2007-03-10 11:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loved you... she wouldn't have left you. Or been as stupied enough to just throw away what you guys had for someone else that could probably never have something with her as you two have.
She doesn't know what she has. She needs to figure it out herself. Tell her how you feel. But going back and forth isn't the way. that causes pain. you're no rebound, she needs to know whats up.
2007-03-10 20:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back out with her. She's treating you like a doormat, don't let her. Move on and ask another girl out, not for revenge but so that you are out there meeting new people instead of waiting around for someone who sounds like she's playing games and disregarding your feelings.
2007-03-10 19:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man you people are rediculous with these qeustion hell no you should even be talking to her do you have any pride there are certain things in this life you can control pride is one of them shes not if she is so fast to drop you for someone else she will do it again but next time she might stay with yea for a minute and then you will get attached and it will be 10 times harder
2007-03-10 20:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by qball2161 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let her know how you feel straight up. Seems like things are going well for you two, She's just got some thinking to do. She might need time, it seems like she's not sure what she wants. Keep being her friend and support her, but let her know how you feel.
2007-03-10 20:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Shea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk cause she acts like she really dont no what she wants, maybe you shouldnt go back out with her yet since she just dumped you like it was nothing and she seems to just move around to different guys alot but if you really love her and care about her and want to be with her get with her and tell her how you feel about her and maybe she will just stay with you and be lucky to have someone love her for her and stop moving around so much
2007-03-10 20:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Brandon D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems like she is just not ready for a commitment and honestly i wouldnt go out with her again until you are sure she isnt going to dump you as soon as she gets bored or it starts gettin serious
2007-03-10 20:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey , stop letting her play you! shes so useing, you ! this is a game that girls play on guys when they need to feel "in control" or "worthy" let her go plenty of good people out there that dont play head games. this is so wrong of her to mess with your head!!! it will never change with her, unless you stop first. let her run to you for awhile. turn the table around and see what happens just be careful with your feelings.try to let go. good luck.
2007-03-10 20:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by 692nite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want want to go back with her after you have been there for her and all she did was dumped you? please have some self respect for yourself and move on. you deserve someone much better. sounds like she's using you whenever she doesn't have anyone. think about what you really want do you really want someone to be running all over you and taking you for granted. or do you want someone who respects and loves you for who you are.
2007-03-10 20:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by gaganjai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in her mind rt now you are a better friend than boyfriend. that's ok because i was in love with my best friend then when we least expected he realized that we have a good start we took it further and now we are getting married in april.
2007-03-10 20:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by pudda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋