So i am going out with this boy, and it has almost been a year now. But my ex told me that he still loves me. And i kinda still like him. But i love my b/f. How do i tell my ex that i don't like him like that anymore?
....please help..
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2007-03-10 11:47:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him he missed his chance. and you guys obviously broke up for a reason. and if he really likes u..he will wait. dont leave the person u love for the one u like, because u like will leave u for the one he loves. remember that. if you go back to ur ex...then thats a whole year wasted. ur boyfriend has done nothing wrong. and he doesnt deserve that. jus b straight up with him. dont beat around the bush and be too nice...because then he will take it as "try harder stupid' and we dont want that. so there...
2007-03-10 11:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u like 1 of them pick him. but if u know the other guy is flirting with u and u like it. maybe u should go with him because u could lose ur relationship with the boy u liked before. it all really depends if u can hold on 2 the guy without ur head being turned. and u might have a better chance with the the b/f. its up 2 u girl be wise about it.
2007-03-10 19:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by sportsrock2me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to bring it up again and break the news. Just tell him that your in a relationship and it wouldn't be fair..tell him you want to remain friends. That way you don't completely burn a bridge and if the new guy doesn't work out you can fall back on the ex.
2007-03-10 19:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by ME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't. If you ever face the question of picking between 2 men, it is a clear sign not to choose any. It would not be fair to either of them. Sorry, but i've learned this the hard way and I wish someone would've told me that!
2007-03-10 19:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you kinda still like your ex then it isn't fair to keep dating the guy your with.
Wouldn't you want him to tell you if he still had feelings for his ex?
2007-03-10 19:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell your ex you don't like him by saying, "I don't like/love you anymore"...and that's it. I think the main reason why women have this dilemna often is because they want their cake and want to eat it too.
2007-03-10 19:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and be nice about it, but just tell him. No other way to tell him you don't want to be with him like that anymore. Good luck!
2007-03-10 19:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably sit him down and then just tell him straight out and hope that you guys can still be friends.
2007-03-10 19:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh i im kindof having a simalar problem.
i liked this boy for 4 years and now ive been dating his best frend for 8 months. sometimes i still think about him but my bf is amzing and i rely like him.
i gues the thing to do is question your self who you like more.
if it turns out to be your bf tell your ex you are in a relationship right now but still wanna be frends. if it turns out to be your ex tell your bf you just want to be frends. idk if your are as confused as i was just wait for a little.
2007-03-10 19:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by jamie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straightup that you have a boyfriend and that you are obligated to him.
Your ex had his chance. Just tell him that you are flattered that he still likes you but you are taken.
2007-03-10 19:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by matthaumschild 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋