How do i not be so paranoid and let things go...cont. from before?

Question

Hi everyone,if you haven't seen my other question or already gave advice...i added more detail to it,so please read&let me know anything from there...thank you i really appreciate it.I am in a bind&don't know how to get out without losing him forever&i don't want that.Im trying to prove to him that i can trust him if he is honest with me&that i will stop being paranoid if he can show me that he loves me&he would never do anything to hurt me again.I am just so frustrated now cause it got to the point now after i asked him so many ?s about meeting this women as friends,he said he was coming to get his keys&garage opener(he originally told me that i could keep them since i have things there&if i ever watch his daughter or if he has me start staying the night every so often,then i have a key)&that if i didn't stop my **** i wouldn't see or hear from him again.I don't him to come get the keys let alone never see him again,so i need help.I know he told me we would never be together again,but

dont want to accept it, i want to be able to prove to him that i am in control of myself and that I really love him and want things to work and hopefully he will put in the effort to start over.

Answer 1

seek professional help and he might consider