recently, many guys I know have been falling for me, and I am too good to tell them NO... i don't know how to say no, to a guy without hurting his feelings...
2nd question::
also, why do guys blame someone else, when texting something... like, a guy just told me he wanted me to be his gf, and I KNOW IT WAS HIM... but i didn't know what to say (how to say NO) because he is like a friend of mine so... you get the idea... so i took like 15 minutes trying to reply, and he sends this text message saying, it was his brother who took the phone... WHY WOULD HE DO THAT?
2007-03-10 11:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are better off telling guys who you are not interested in the truth. Just tell them that you are not interested in a relationship with them.
I think it is worse to leave a guy confused, wondering what happened. It is sometimes better to be honest on how you feel. Prolonging it can hurt the friendship you have.
As for question 2, well there is a chance that his brother may have got his phone. However, I wouldn't stress about it too much. If he really does like you he may bring the issue up again.
2007-03-10 11:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jones2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer the second question maybe it was his bro but if it wasn't then he was just embarrased, that he finally did it and then got shot down. Now how to tell a guy no. Just tell him no, he may be embarrassed but he will get over it if he does want to be your friend. Or more maybe sometime down the road your feelings may change and if he was smart enough to stick around and be friends then he may just have a chance. Dont lead them on though, we men arent very smart sometimes. Subtle doesnt always work for us. GL
2007-03-10 19:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Geez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, if you don't want to go out with them just say no. Yea there will be awkwardness, but it will blow over. If anything, you ask some boy out and then when people want you to be their gf, you say you already have one. And for your 2nd question, well, boys feel shot down when you make them wait. So some of us lie. Just say no, then we won't have to lie. Don't be afraid to hurt our feelings, we'll get over it.
2007-03-10 19:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Twigg313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you texted him no first : because he is embarrased
if he texted saying someone else did it BEFORE you said no, then he is brother probably DID do it.
2007-03-10 19:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by jackknowswhatitsat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with this or any guy.Don't be afraid of hurting their feelings.Leading a person on is worst.
How would you feel if you were in their shoes?
2007-03-10 19:52:47 · answer #5 · answered by sharen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just you are not ready for any guy....that you have dreams to do in reality...cause,if you wait for him to buy things for you..he will get more hurt later...say it now that you are not ready...be honest...for him to get hurt is better than getting mad at you...
2007-03-10 19:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋