In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-10 11:41:46 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was then when girls and boys do funny thing and as time goes by and people go to college and work and so on, the teasing and treatment behave should go away with it. I don't think it was right for you to that because it made you no difference from them. You want to stand out and not like them, and I am sure people do change. Take this. Your words becomes your feeling and your feeling becomes your action and your action becomes your character,your character becomes of who you are and that's becomes the social comments of your description.
2007-03-10 11:55:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right is a very old saying n true.To do what they did does not make u any better in fact it makes u look just as bad as them cuz u stooped to there level.I was also fat god I had my underwear hung on a flagpole with my name written in florescent lipstick.I have thought about this many times over the yrs cuz I was really hurt by that oh ya they took pics n brought them to school after we got back from camp.Anyways I have learnt something in the past few yrs n what goes around always come around n have seen it over n over again .If we have a reunion I would just shake my head with a grin of discuss n hope as an adult they r not as ignorant.Most people change n to hold on to anger like that just bothers u in the end more then it did to the person u where rude to.Well hope those women feel bad and have changed n it's to bad maybe another time u might want to give them enough time to possibly make amends.I know I would if I had done something wrong like that to someone in school.Well bye for now n have a wonderful wkend.
2007-03-10 11:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, you tell me...does it feel good to make a girl feel bad? Did it make you feel like a big, bad *** guy to get revenge on some girls you went to high school with? Puh-lease. Grow up!!
Did you learn anything in college or did you just beef up your bod? Did you forget to beef up your brain, too? Revenge is NEVER a good thing! It always comes back to bite YOU in the ***.
You could have been the bigger man and introduced yourself to those girls and made a better impression on them by being nice to them. Leave the high school games right where they belong; in the past, and get on with your life.
2007-03-10 11:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by ptcruisinflutterby 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO - this is not a great revenge.It seems you are not asking a question but only telling us what happened - only to gloat.
(If you are asking for an opinion - don't expect to get answer you want to hear.)
Rejecting them is one thing. But insulting them - you only showed you are just as bad as they were when they teased you. Come on, you can be better than that - now that you can have anyone you want.
A chinese proverb: when set out on a course of revenge, dig two graves.
2007-03-10 11:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It might feel good for awhile, but in the end, you will be known as someone who has a long way to go emotionally. The women you've rejected have undoubtedly grown and matured as you have. They probably won't spend too much time regretting their treatment of you - they'll simply move on to someone else whose head isn't stuck in the mundane traumas of high school.
2007-03-10 11:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't go for revenge by insulting them. You should just refuse to go out with them. I think that just you refusing them now that you are someone they want would be revenge enough. It is good that you can have anyone that you want. Just don't go hurting others just cuz they have hurt you. Show them that you are a bigger person then they are.
2007-03-10 11:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting revenge can actually feel pretty shallow sometimes. You're better off by just bettering yourself and forgetting those girls. Don't lower yourself to what they did, especially since you are an adult now. Just ignore them and live your life. Haven't you ever heard, "Living well is the best revenge"?
2007-03-10 11:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by nimo22 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not great revenge..
This is immature foolishness.
You had an opportunity to have sex with all the
good looking high school girls and you decided
to be mean to them instead ?
That is called "Cutting off your nose to spite your face"..
They were mean to you and you hated them for it...
Now you were mean to them which makes you as bad
as you thought that they were...
They were juvenile high school girls and have now grown up.
You are still acting like a juvenile...
2007-03-10 11:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what you did is not right you shouldn't act like them because now your'll just like them your just as bad. one person from cole 5 ( a old group from 2002 simmar to b5) ask me out and i said no but i did it in a nice way and now we are good friends maybe you guy could be friends 2 start all over cuz maybe you might want to go out with one of them
2007-03-10 11:56:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is not to insult the girls, but to look great, and reject them politely saying that they could've had you, but the shallow cows didn't see the potential, so it's their problem now.
2007-03-10 11:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋