ladies (and guys too) am I moving things too slow for her?

Question

We talked via email for a month before we went out on our first date. We made out. A week or two later we got into a fight about some of our differences. So we worked them out for the time being and went out on another date. This was our second date in a month which was much better than the first;). Now we are getting more than casual but not quite serious. She wanted me to go to church with her the same week we went out but I passed for now. I want to give her space and not rush her so should I see her every other week or so instead of once a week? I don't want to rush her because she is hot and that's what most guys do but I don't want to make her think I'm not interested or just playing her.

Answer 1

ask her if she thinks your moving to fast. and if she says you are then one a week is cool. dont make it look like your avoiding her by dating her once every few weeks. relax. dont stress about it. just have a good time.

Answer 2

omg. listen. if she thinks u r moving too fast, she will let you know. thats what us girls do.thats what we live for. K?stop turning her down, because she is probably thinking that ud rather do something else. and she is wondering why you even said no in the first place. its obvoius, she's feeling u!!!and she wants to spend time with u.what could possibly happen at church???stop turning her down b4 she starts thinking that u dont like her as much as she likes u. and if she's with u then she knows ure different than other guys. why would a girl date a guy exactly like her ex???then it would end the same. and thats boring. its ok to spend time. if itll make u feel better then let her know that u dont wanna take advantage of her...in some subtle kind of way. and stop having so many secrets and keeping things like this from her b4 she starts getting ideas. we think alot...and thats not good.

p.s. what if she told her friends that u turned down her church offer...they r most definitely giving her ideas as well

Answer 3

I think you may be moving a bit slow. If she invited you to church, then it sounds like she's in to you. I say, if she invites you, take the offer. And if when you invite her, if she keeps saying no, then you'll know she's not really interested, then you may wanna back off. But for now, I say step the pace up a notch!

Answer 4

go with her to church...passing is telling her that you are not interested or maybe avoiding her...pleasing her is a good sign of showing your side of interest..she will go to where you want to go also..if your outings are descent to be there...ladies loves to be attended too...every other week is not a good way to show interest on your side...and when you make love...go slow and have a slow body connection together if you know what i mean....listen to conway twitty country song>>slow hands...you will learn how to do aaaaaaaaa smoooooothe touch....

Answer 5

See her every week, or she may think you're not into her. At least give her a call.

Answer 6

every other week? i don't think that's enough, she could find someone else in that time. just see her at least every week, just be nice, be a gentleman, just show her that you're not playing her, you don't have to not see her

Answer 7

well . . . i would do things with her once a week. but just check yourself & make sure you're not pushing her to do anything she doesn't want to do. look into her eyes & if you see fear, then stop.
don't worry, i'm sure she knows you like her & aren't playing her.

Answer 8

if you slow it down anymore she will probably think you are not interested and move on.

Answer 9

see her as much as you want to see her