I broke up with him a week ago and he is asking me to go on dates with him still! I said we could me friends but he has taken it to far! I have told him I go out with another guy but then he asked me to go to the next homecoming with him today. Why does he still like me, how can I tell him 'Back Off" without really saying it?
2007-03-10 11:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by Hunnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, when he sees you with your new date, I'm sure reality will hit him like a ton of bricks.
I had a crush on a girl when I was 14. She was over 18, though. I went to the same church as her, just because she was there, but I was so shy that I couldn't approach her. She did approach me a couple of times, though. I thought about those two instances for months.
After a year I stopped attending the church, but came back a few months later, and saw her sitting with some guy. I kept pretending to myself that it was her brother or cousin, but I knew in my heart who it really was.
That was 11 years ago, and I'm still trying to get over it......
If you can, try and handle this situation with care. It may affect him years down the road. Love is an odd thing, because it can go one way, with the other person not sharing the same feelings.
2007-03-10 11:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he doesn`t take rejection well. Tell him NO on the homecoming and just don`t talk to him until he gets the message that you are only friends. If he doesn`t get the message then I guess you can`t be friends.
2007-03-10 19:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First thing he is not in your mind, He is not thinking like you and then you are still talking to him and making thinks worst. Once you tell someone No then You have to mean it. By talking to him, he may think that you will change your mind. Make it in sweet, small and simple words, NO, and don't even explain. Stay away from him for your safety and don't answer his calls. By time goes, his feeling for you will go away to.
2007-03-10 19:21:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got to say to him that you aren't interested. At this point, subtle hints don't work. It only helps to say to him that you are not interested, plain and simple. It may feel harsh, but it'll work out best in the end.
2007-03-10 19:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last line is a clue to your real problem. It isn't him. It's you and your dishonesty.
If you don't like someone, you should say that. No more, no less, and no lies like "we can be friends".
What is wrong with just being honest? If you want him to back off, tell him to back off.
2007-03-10 19:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could tell him that while you really do want to be his friend, he's making it hard because he won't leave you alone. Tell him that you need your space right now, you've moved on, and until he does the same he's putting your friendship in jeopardy.
2007-03-10 19:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by mememe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say that u need some space. dont let one guy over take ur life. u need 2 both sit down and talk about how youre just friends and how u need ur own space or w/e. hope this helps good luck
2007-03-10 19:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by dangg x jessss (: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's your problem... you are trying to say it without saying it. You are sending mixed signals. Just be honest with him.
2007-03-10 19:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It take along time. I had somebody like me, for years. It took somebody else like him, until forgot about me.
2007-03-10 19:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stand firm by your decision and let him know, he'll get the picture eventually, watch out for his guilty tactics
2007-03-10 19:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋