Neither one of us are enjoying it right now were a new couple have only tried twice
2007-03-10 11:10:45 · 22 answers · asked by Stan H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From experience I can tell you the best sex I've had has been with someone I was in a long term relationship with. The more you do it the more you get to know what eachother likes...it takes time. Maybe don't put such an emphasis on it be more spontaneous like public places and such
2007-03-10 11:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't enjoy the first few times. It takes practice. Talk to each other. Tell each other and show each other how you like to be touched and such. It should be about pleasure and the connection you have. If it is just about "sex" in general, it's not gonna be enjoyable.
2007-03-10 19:17:53 · answer #2 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all.keep trying. second of all. u might want to experiment with new things. such as positions. talk to her about it. cuz if u cant please her one way...then maybe u should try another way to make up for it. oral sex is good, if youre good at it. but if you're not stay away from it, or get some extreme practice. but u might wanna explore more options in bed, go to different places and try different moods!!!one of them has to work.believe me. but don't give up on her, she might be a keeper.
2007-03-10 19:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider purchasing a book or visiting a website with new and exciting positions on it. When my girlfriend and I got bored, switching it up spiced things up! Good Luck!!
2007-03-10 19:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its horses for courses im afraid..what im trying to say is both of you may very well be capable or indeed great lovers but everyone has their unique style and it changes with experience with other lovers and with each other..so the only way to improve is to relax and practice practice practice...enjoy its meant to be fun you will get there..
2007-03-10 19:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some experience and buy some lube a kama sutra and some flavored lube crap and wipped cream then you will have some fun and grow some balls and figure out where the g spot is its not hard its near the back top of the *****
2007-03-10 19:16:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient it gets better. Toys really help and try to make her as comfortable as possible. Foreplay always really helps to relax you and helps you to enjoy the moment.
2007-03-10 19:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you partner? I can deduct you just lose interest on her, and possibly she has to on you. Sorry, she might have start with some one else, who knows how take care of a lady, not a sex toy.
2007-03-10 19:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by FlowMaster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both love each other then its comes naturally, Its time to find out why, Before its to late. the feeling between both of you is missing. Once you understand it, you don't have to ask then because its going to be there itself.
2007-03-10 19:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agreed. Take it slow, stop making it all about actual intercourse, try just kissing and giving each other massages.
Toys really help..
2007-03-10 19:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Fabulously Broke in the City 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋